In this episode, guest Andrew Guck shares his remarkable journey from upstate New York to building a life in southern France, where he’s lived for over a decade. What began with a casual interest in French class—and a long-lost crush—eventually led to a love story, a spontaneous elopement, and a bold move abroad.
Andrew opens up about the cultural differences he encountered, especially the French approach to communication, debate, and saying “non.” He reflects on how these challenges reshaped his worldview and taught him to slow down, set boundaries, and trust his intuition.
We talk about the foods he still misses from America, what it really takes to start over in a new country, and how he went from odd jobs to a successful career in real estate. Along the way, Andrew offers candid, heartfelt advice for anyone dreaming of making a big leap—emphasizing the power of passion, flexibility, and following the signs (even when they don’t make sense at first).
Whether you're curious about expat life, craving a career pivot, or just love a good origin story—this conversation will inspire you to trust your gut and chase the life that’s calling.
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Introduction and Background
11:32 Journey to France and Love Story
18:06 Life in France: Reality vs. Expectations
28:48 Cultural Differences and Adaptation
33:35 Navigating No: Understanding Rejection and Opportunity
34:52 Cultural Differences: The Pace of Life in France vs. America
36:05 Missing Home: Food and Traditions from America
38:35 Career Challenges: Finding Work as a Foreigner in France
44:22 The Evolution of Remote Work: A Personal Journey
46:03 Embracing Change: From Yoga to Real Estate
57:51 Advice for Expats: Following Your Heart in New Adventures
CONNECT WITH ANDREW
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