In this provocative episode, Ralitza and Carla peel back the layers around sexuality, self-expression, and the invisible barriers that keep women from owning their sensual truth.
From navigating AI censorship to unpacking personal stories of desire and identity, they dive into the raw, real, and often uncomfortable territories of sexiness that most people never talk about.
Carla introduces 10 irresistible flavours of SEXY - each an archetype that women cycle through naturally:
High-Vibe & Energetic
Magnetic & Head-Turning
Playful & Cheeky
Confident & Commanding
Dark & Mysterious
Elegant & Polished
Wild & Untamed
Sweet & Enchanting
Fierce & Empowered
Slow & Sensual
Together, they explore how shame, societal programming, and past relationship patterns can block these expressions - and how reclaiming each flavour opens new pathways for embodiment, intimacy, and personal power. Ralitza shares her visceral response to the “dark and mysterious” archetype, igniting a deeper discussion about nervous system safety, identity, and the transition into the new energetic era of 2026.
Listeners are invited into a compassionate, permission-filled space to examine their own behaviors, triggers, and desires, while learning how to show up more consciously for themselves and their relationships.
A bold, liberating conversation that brings humour, honesty, and heat to the journey of becoming fully expressed.
Find Carla Crivaro here:
Instagram: @carlacrivaro
Email: carla@crivaro.com
Website: www.carlacrivaro.com
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Are You A Charlotte?
In 1997, actress Kristin Davis’ life was forever changed when she took on the role of Charlotte York in Sex and the City. As we watched Carrie, Samantha, Miranda and Charlotte navigate relationships in NYC, the show helped push once unacceptable conversation topics out of the shadows and altered the narrative around women and sex. We all saw ourselves in them as they searched for fulfillment in life, sex and friendships. Now, Kristin Davis wants to connect with you, the fans, and share untold stories and all the behind the scenes. Together, with Kristin and special guests, what will begin with Sex and the City will evolve into talks about themes that are still so relevant today. "Are you a Charlotte?" is much more than just rewatching this beloved show, it brings the past and the present together as we talk with heart, humor and of course some optimism.
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