E:59: Unseen Battles--Wrestling Against Our Own Mind | Godly Womanhood Post Divorce

Discover why your greatest battle post-divorce is spiritual, not circumstantial. Learn to recognize when you're acting in the flesh vs. walking in the Spirit.

 

# UNSEEN BATTLES: WRESTLING AGAINST OUR OWN MIND ## Godly Womanhood Series - Episode 59 ---

### YOUR GREATEST BATTLE ISN'T WITH YOUR EX—IT'S SPIRITUAL

Are you exhausted from fighting battles you can't seem to win? Do you find yourself spiraling every time your ex sends a text, panicking about finances, or questioning every decision you make? Maybe you're the woman who moves too fast in relationships—compromising boundaries, accepting breadcrumbs, operating in urgency and scarcity. Or maybe you've shut down completely—telling yourself you're "focused on God" when really, you're terrified of being hurt again.

**Here's what both women have in common:**

You're exhausted. You're carrying everything alone. And you feel disconnected from who God says you are. But here's what I need you to hear: **

The battle you're fighting? It's not the real one.** ---

### IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL DISCOVER:

**FIRST:** How to recognize when you're acting in the flesh instead of walking in the Spirit—because a godly woman knows the difference, and that awareness transforms her.

**SECOND:** Why all your battles are actually spiritual battles—and what that means for how you fight them. Your ex isn't your enemy. Your circumstances aren't your enemy. The real battle is in your mind.

**THIRD:** What God promises when you stop fighting Him for control and start surrendering to His strength. ---

### KEY SCRIPTURES EXPLORED:

📖 **1 Corinthians 3:3** - "You are still of the flesh. For while there is jealousy and strife among you, are you not behaving only in a human way?"

📖 **Ephesians 6:12** - "We do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places."

📖 **Psalm 37:3-7** - God's blueprint for the godly woman: Trust. Delight. Commit. Be still. ---

### THE 7 FALSE BELIEFS KEEPING YOU STUCK:

In this episode, I reveal the false agreements most divorced Christian women have made with the enemy:

❌ "I'm too broken to be loved"

❌ "My past disqualifies me from God's best"

❌ "I have to earn love"

❌ "Safety isn't for me"

❌ "I'm behind in life"

❌ "God is disappointed in me"

❌ "I'll never be whole again"

These are lies. And recognizing them is your first step to freedom. ---

### POWERFUL TRUTHS FROM THIS EPISODE:

💭 **"God meets you in your mess, not after you've cleaned it up."** - 

💭 **"Your pain does not define you. What you DO with your pain does."** 💭 **"A godly woman recognizes when she's operating in the flesh—not to shame herself, but as the first step toward walking in the Spirit."**

💭 **"When you don't know your identity in Christ, you chase validation from men, shut down emotionally, and make every decision from fear."

** ### THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF:

✓ You're tired of repeating the same relational patterns

✓ You feel emotionally unstable and reactive

✓ You're either chasing validation or completely shut down

✓ You know Biblical truth but struggle to actually live it

✓ You want deep, identity-level transformation

✓ You're ready to become the godly woman God created you to be ---

### WHAT ONE CLIENT SAID: *

"Working with Katie has been one of the most transformative experiences of my life. She helped me open my heart and mind to new ways of thinking, feeling, and healing post divorce. Through her guidance, I've learned how to process my hurt, embrace change, and begin rebuilding my life with a foundation rooted in God's truth. Her wisdom, compassion, and spiritual insight have empowered me to grow emotionally, spiritually, and personally. I'm deeply grateful for the safe space she's created and the tools she's given me to walk in healing and wholeness."* ---

### READY TO STOP FIGHTING IN YOUR OWN STRENGTH?

If you're done with the chaos in your mind and ready to walk in the peace God has for you, I invite you to book a free discovery call for my **Selah Healing program**.

**Selah is a 12-week transformation journey** where we take Biblical truth and apply it to YOUR specific life:

- Your ex and co-parenting triggers

- Your patterns with men (chasing or avoiding)

- Your identity wounds and false beliefs

- Your emotional regulation and nervous system healing

- Your spiritual alignment and intimacy with God This isn't about trying harder. It's about surrendering to God's strength and becoming the woman He created you to be—rooted in identity, walking in peace, operating from His power.

I only work with women who are serious about transformation—women ready to stop fighting in t