What do silverback gorillas, burnout, and barstool bravado have in common? More than you think.
In this brilliantly bizarre episode, Kristin and Laura are joined by psychologist and burnout researcher Dr. Pete Olusoga to unpack why 100 men vs 1 gorilla became a cultural obsession — and what it reveals about masculinity, performance, and emotional repression.
Together, they unpack:
• The “alpha male” myth and its viral appeal
• Why masculinity feels performative, fragile, and exhausting
• The psychology of burnout and who it’s selling out
• What TikTok fitness bros and Jordan Peterson have in common
• Why being “a real man” might just burn you out
From the manosphere to the therapist’s couch, this is a wild ride through memes, masculinity, and what it really means to be resilient.
Spoiler: You don’t need to fight a gorilla to prove your worth.
Pete's Details:
Insta: @dr_pete_olusoga / @eightypercentmental
TikTok: @dr_pete_olusoga
Web: www.eightypercentmental.com
But Why Socials: https://linktr.ee/butwhy.pod
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