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July 31, 2025 9 mins

Most people fire back the moment they’re blamed, challenged, or disrespected.

That’s exactly how they lose control.

 

In this video, I reveal the counter-intuitive power of taking your sweet time—whether you’re facing an angry employee, an unfair accusation, or a random road confrontation. Master this calm pause and you’ll own every situation.

 

What You’ll Learn

• Why instant reactions drain your power

• The neuroscience of the strategic pause

• How to flip the power dynamic without saying a word

• Real-life examples (angry driver, defensive teammate)

• Daily practice to build unshakeable composure

 

Timestamps

01:30 – Old habit: justify, fix, react

04:00 – The realization: pause > react

06:00 – Example #1: false car-damage accusation

08:30 – Example #2: under-performing employee blame game

11:00 – Locus of control: deciding if you respond

13:00 – How the pause boosts leadership, confidence, peace

15:00 – Try it today: step-by-step implementation

 

Take Action

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