A chat about coming of age in a man’s world. As Rebecca Solnit says, “It gets you even if it doesn’t get you. You have to think every day of your life as a girl and a young woman, if I wear this what will happen? If I go out, what will happen?” and girls and women are getting the message that “this is not your world, this is not your street, this is not your city, this is not your adventure, you are not the protagonist.”
In this hour, Elle and Natalie reflect on growing up female, and unpack the conditioning all girls and women are subjected to.
EPISODE LINKS
Rebecca's English Hub |Tik Tok
Science of Smiling | National Library of Medicine
Lake Bell Interview | CBS Mornings
Why Some Grown Women Sound Like Girls | Psychology Today
The Gift of Fear | Gavin de Becker
Men Hazing Girls & Women | Rebecca Solnit
Men Explain Things to Me | Rebecca Solnit
The Hero’s Journey | Joseph Campbell
The Heroine’s Journey | Maureen Murdoch
Twelve Feminist Lessons of War | Cynthia Enloe
Cynthia Enloe Interview | Subject To Power
Women’s War Stories | Sonora Jha
I’m Gonna Be an Engineer | Peggy Seeger
CONTACT
Website: www.chatinthecommons.com
Instagram: @chatinthecommons
Email: https://www.chatinthecommons.com/contact
CREDITS
Hosted by Natalie Blundell and Elle Kamihira
Produced by Natalie Blundell and Elle Kamihira
Edited by Elle Kamihira
Audio Engineering by Jason Sheesley at Abridged Audio
Cover Art by Reda Tomingas
Music by Moushumi
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