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September 23, 2025 46 mins

A chat about sex. In this third episode of our series on the 4B movement, we explore the various reasons why many women are opting out of sexual relationships with men. Elle and Natalie share some of their own lived experiences, along with interesting new research, and a lot of giggles.

In Sexodus Part 1 we talk about the differences between female and male sexuality and sexual pleasure, the pornification of sex and dangerous sexual practices. We also discuss  what women actually want and need in bed.

EPISODE LINKS

South Korean Pink Map | The Guardian

6B4T Movement

Why Women Boycott Men | NPR Colin McEnroe Show

She Comes First | Ian Kerner

Come As You Are | Emily Nagoski

Sex At Dawn | Dr. Christopher Ryan 

Dr. Christopher Ryan | The Minimalists Podcast 

Masters and Johnson

Pornland | Gail Dines

Culture Reframed

Porn is a Battlefield with Gail Dines | Subject to Power

Collective Shout

He Chose Porn Over Me | Melinda Tankard Reist

The Hellscape Files with Melinda Tankard Reist | Subject to Power

Porn Speak | Whitt Marie TikTok

Strangulation Report 2024

DV Stroke Report 2022

Strangulation Institute Factsheet

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