Cheaters IRL Podcast

Cheaters IRL Podcast

This podcast discusses cheating. It follows 6 true stories of cheating experiences that all have different fact scenarios and outcomes. It addresses the commonalities in people's experiences with cheating, as well as misconceptions about cheating, red flags to spot cheating and even some of the legal implications of cheating. This podcast is created and produced by an experienced family law attorney. Each episode has 2 parts that can both function as standalone episodes themselves but are in two parts for a reason. This is to make listening and navigating the episodes easier. Part 1 of each episode are the discussion portions of the episodes. Discussions regarding relationships, the commonalities in cheating experiences, misconceptions and red flags to spot cheating, as well as legal implications. Part 2 of each episode takes us through the 6 couples true (raw) stories of cheating where you will see the items discussed in Part 1 in real life scenarios. Questions such as the following will be addressed through-out the podcast: How to spot cheating What to do if you are being cheated on Why was I cheated on Why did I cheat What are the potential outcomes and impacts of cheating How do I trust anyone after I've been cheated on How can I handle interacting with my spouse after divorce, due to cheating, for our kid's sakes What are the long-term consequences of staying or leaving after cheating happens And more.

Episodes

April 26, 2026 33 mins

Episode 17 Part 1:

Life as it SHOULD be versus Life as it IS; How these sometimes-conflicting views impact marriage, and the response to infidelity

The Impact of Infidelity on Religious Beliefs Infidelity often has a significant impact on religious views and behaviors

The Impact of Others’ Reactions to the Infidelity on the Couple’s Decisions

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Episode 16 Part 2: Stacy & Todd Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating

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Episode 16 Part 1:

Why people stay after cheating is discovered. We discuss the most common reason people stay in a marriage after discovering their spouse has cheated.

If a cheating spouse has left to be with someone else, how does a spouse go about getting them to come home? What difficulties does this create? How does a cheated-on spouse handle this scenario?

Conflict Avoiders Create Conflict. Conflict Avoiders are not peacemake...

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Episode 15 Part 2: Gaslighting versus Lying; Chad and Amy the Fallout from Confirmation of Cheating

 

The Intro describes the difference between gaslighting and just ordinary lying

Amy's response to learning for certain that Chad has been cheating. The effects of gaslighting highly drive how Amy responds.

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Discussing Amy's mother's claim that if Amy left Chad, she would just be “trading one set of problems for another.” 

Is divorce essentially trading one set of problems for another?

Michelle’s attitude toward Danny, specifically her attitude that #1) She didn’t have to be faithful to him because he didn’t satisfy her in bed and #2) That they had “grown apart.” These are insincere excuses and we’ll discuss why in this episode.

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Episode 14 Part 2: Summary of All 6 Stories Up to Now 

 

Summary of All 6 Stories up to the point of the cheated-on partner accepting and confirming that they have, in fact, been cheated on. 

Patterns of Cheating are common in most cases, these 6 stories represent common patterns.

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Episode 14 Part 1: Evidence of Cheating: How do you know if your partner is cheating?

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Episode 13 Part 2: Raquel & Kyle Confirmation of Cheating

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Episode 13 Part 1: Listen to your Head, Your Heart is an idiot

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Episode 12 Part 2: Danny & Michelle Confirmations of Cheating

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Episode 12 Part 1: Motivations for Lying, Effect of Images Popping into the Cheated-On Spouse's Mind

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Episode 11 Part 2: Jeff & Tanya Confirmation of Cheating

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Episode 11 Part 1: Lying About the "Whys" behind Cheating Behavior

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Episode 10 Part 2: Nicole and Dave Confirmation of Cheating

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Episode 10 Part 1:  

Cheaters' Lies when Confronted About Cheating. Cheaters lie about all aspects of cheating, not just about IF they are cheating. They lie about how many times, where they cheated, how they cheated and most of all WHY they cheated. They often even find a way to blame the cheated-on for their cheating.

Emotions Experienced by Cheated-On Spouse. The cheated-on spouse often feels surprised by how much anger they fee...

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Episode 9 Part 2: Stacy & Todd Confirmations of Cheating

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Episode 9 Part 1: Support Systems, Vehicles and Work Schedules as Red Flags

 

Support Systems are critical for physical, mental and emotional health

Vehicles can often contain a lot of evidence of cheating, as they are common hiding places for cheaters

Work is one of the most common claims to conceal cheating incidents

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Episode 8 Part 2: Amy & Chad Confirmations of Cheating

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Episode 8 Part 1: Rumors, No Smoke Without Fire, Confessions by Cheating Partners, The Impact of Cheating on a Cheated-on Spouse

Rumors, No Smoke without Fire

The impact of rumors of cheating on relationships

Why do cheaters confess their cheating to others

Why do Cheaters' Cheating Partners Confess to the Cheated-On Spouse

The Impact of Cheating on a Cheated On Spouse's Feelings of self-worth

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Episode 7 Part 2: Michelle & Danny Suspicions of Cheating Arise, Raquel & Kyle Suspicions of Cheating Arise

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