34 | Beyond the Lie: Unpacking the Fear That Shut Me Down — Honest Talk with Sharaya Maples (Part 1)
If you’ve ever caught your teen lying and wondered, “Why would they do that?” — this episode is for you.
In part one of a heartfelt conversation with my daughter Sharaya, we unpack what’s really going on when your teen lies. It’s not about rebellion—it’s often about fear, shame, or self-protection. Together, we explore the hidden reasons behind teen dishonesty and what you can do to build connection and trust instead of tension. If you’ve been walking on eggshells or feeling shut out, this episode will help you see your teen’s behavior through a new lens and open the door to deeper connection. 💛
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You’ll discover how to stop walking on eggshells and start building a relationship rooted in trust and safety—without guilt, fear, or frustration.
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In this episode, you’ll learn:
-Why fear of punishment and loss of control often drive teens to lie
-How to respond in a way that builds emotional safety and invites honesty
-Simple ways to shift from correction to connection—starting today
And don’t miss the end of this episode where I share something real — a moment I missed during this interview and what God reminded me afterward.
It’s an encouraging reminder that we’re all in process — and that grace is the bridge between where we are and the connection we’re rebuilding.
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