4 | Stop Walking on Eggshells: 6 Secrets to Confidently Connect with Your Teen + Bonus Secret! (Part 2)

Do you ever feel like you’re walking on eggshells with your teen—afraid to say the wrong thing or get shut out altogether? There’s a better way.

In this episode, we’re picking up where we left off in Part 1—and diving into the next three connection-building shifts that will help you move from tension and second-guessing…to trust, peace, and confidence. I’m even throwing in a bonus secret that might surprise you—but will encourage you.

I’ll take you behind the scenes into one of the most powerful turning points I experienced as a mom with my daughter—and how learning to pause, listen, and respond differently opened the door to healing, trust, and real relationship.

You’ll walk away with simple ways to:

• Stop reacting to behavior and start connecting with the heart underneath
• Invite your teen to open up—without pressure, judgment, or forcing the moment
• Stay consistent in how you show up (even when it feels like nothing’s changing)
• Recognize and celebrate the wins that matter most—those Spirit-led moments of breakthrough and closeness

Whether your teen is pulling away or just tough to read, these principles will help you connect without control—and begin building the legacy of love and relationship you long for.

Homework / Reflection

✔️ Invite Them to Say More

Next time your teen gives a short answer, attitude, or even silence—pause. Instead of reacting, say something like:

“That sounds rough… tell me more?” or “I’m listening—would you say more?”

Then Listen. Let your calm and focused presence speak louder than words.

✔️ Practice Curious Listening When They Initiate

If they start talking (even briefly), resist the urge to fix or finish their sentence. Just invite more. And when they’re done, say: “Thanks for sharing.”

That’s it. No lectures. No sighs. Just space, safety, and gratitude. You’re building a foundation of trust through your connection one listening moment at a time.

Rejoicing in Hope,

Terri

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