Episode Summary: In this episode of Counsel and Community, Brett and Sarah Green from the Nelson Law Group discuss how women can actively strengthen their marriages and avoid divorce. Drawing on personal experiences and professional insights, they share the top reasons men initiate divorce—such as lack of shared interests, lack of respect, infidelity, addiction, and diminished intimacy—and offer practical ways women can address these challenges before they escalate.
The conversation explores how focusing solely on children can unintentionally create distance between spouses, why resentment builds when unspoken expectations aren’t met, and how hyper-independence can undermine a marriage. Brett emphasizes the importance of intentional time and respect in a partnership, while Sarah reflects on her own experiences, highlighting the need to allow space for a partner to step up and contribute.
The episode also cautions against venting about your spouse to friends and family, encouraging instead the pursuit of wise counsel and focusing on grace, mutual support, and teamwork. The mindful moment encourages women to intentionally create space for connection with their spouse—even in small, simple ways.
Key Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction to why women initiate divorce more often 01:15 – Top reasons men leave their marriages 03:30 – How focusing solely on children creates distance in a marriage 06:05 – Lack of intimacy and the feeling of disconnection 08:42 – Why respect matters deeply in sustaining a relationship 11:00 – Letting your partner parent: avoiding hyper-independence 14:25 – Resentment, unspoken expectations, and how they lead to disconnect 17:15 – Personal reflections on how actions contribute to divorce 21:00 – The dangers of badmouthing your spouse to others 25:12 – Seeking wise counsel and learning from long-lasting marriages 28:20 – Showing grace for mistakes and embracing teamwork in marriage 31:10 – Mindful moment: creating intentional space for connection 33:05 – Final takeaway: investing time now to avoid costly regret later
About the Show: Counsel and Community blends legal insight with real-life relationship and personal growth advice. Hosted by the Nelson Law Group team, the show offers practical tips for navigating family and legal challenges while fostering stronger, healthier relationships.
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