Ep. 1 Couples Unscripted: Who are We? What is this Show? Lets Talk Green Flags

Welcome to the first episode of Couples Unscripted! Meet your hosts, Ayana and Nyles, as they share their story and passion for relationships. This episode dives into green flags—the positive signs in dating and relationships—and how to spot them. With humor, honesty, and real-life insights, Ayana and Nyles kick off this unscripted journey full of love, growth, and connection. Perfect for singles, couples, and everyone in between! 

Episode Transcript

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Coming up next on episode one of Couples Unscripted.
I looked at him and you looked at me. 3 00:00:09,340.1 --> 00:00:10,660 I think I was looking at the couch. 4 00:00:10,660.1 --> 00:00:13,859.9 No, no, no.
Ladies, I don't know what's this talk about him picking out the ring.
.9995That's foolishness. 7 00:00:18,439.9995 --> 00:00:19,810 Like, that is crazy to me.
I don't understand.
I had options.

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Listen, you had two options.
You're probably a red flag also.
birds of a feather flock together.
So change your ways and identify where are your green flags? What are your strong, what are your high characteristic traits? What's up guys.

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It is Ayana and Niles and it is episode one of couples unscripted.
We're freaking excited.
It has been such a long time coming just to be here.
Sitting here today in front of you guys It's a long journey.
It's a long journey, but we're so excited.
.999This is What we've been working on for a really long time has been calling us and drawing us to be able to put on this show and there's so many different dynamics of the show that it's gonna be It's just gonna be more than what you guys will probably imagine. 20 00:01:24,54.999 --> 00:01:27,230 Yes, but We're going to get into that a little bit later.

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We're going to be diving into a lot of topics on love and dating and single life and marriage and non traditional dynamics.
Now, monogamy, all kinds of dynamics.
we are talking about talking to all dynamics.
Couple's relationships.
We're going to flip over every stone.
That's what it called.
Something like that.
Yeah, we knocked them all over.

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Happy valentine's day valentine's day Thank you guys for joining us on this day of love or what they call it love But every day for me is a day of love 365 spouse because you got to put in that work for all the ones who are in a relationship and even for the single people.
Happy valentine's day to y'all as well.
Thank you for joining us it means a lot that y'all tuned in.

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Like Ayana said, this has been a labor of love.
it's been some very testing and trying moments and days and long nights.
a lot of unsynced audio and failed cameras and Yeah, I know.
A lot of shit, like a lot of stuff happening and I'm tired of it, but I'm happy to be here, but oof.

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It's part of the process, you know.
.999What Couples Unscripted really is, is just giving unfiltered, raw, deep, honest conversation in regards to marriage.
If you're in a long term relationship and don't want to be married.
.9If you're single and maybe looking to get in a relationship or you just want to understand what's going on with it.

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People in their dynamics.
We just want to be able to have those honest conversations and really peel back the layers of what it is and what it means to be in a relationship and what you have to give personally in order to have a successful relationship.
Because a lot of time I think people like to project and put things onto their partners.
And this shows we want to hold up the mirror and be like, Hey, it takes two to tango and you have to be accountable just as much as your partner.

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In regards to this episode, Episode one, we're going to talk about identifying green flags, cause I believe since it's Valentine's day, we want to keep talking about love and good things and good energy.
We don't need to talk about any, eh, you know, let's stay away from that. 46 00:03:33,139.999 --> 00:03:35,139.999 We're going to get into all that, eh, later on. 47 00:03:35,239.999 --> 00:03:37,689.999 There, there's episodes of where it gets.

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The red flags will come which we will do have an episode later on in regards to red flags and identifying red flags Yeah, so just tune in later on an episode when we talk and discuss more about identifying green flags but that'll be later on right now we still want to talk about couples unscripted and what it is and why we are doing this Yeah, so like why now like why couples unscripted like why are we doing this? For me, I have a background in film And I have always wanted to create a show, didn't know what kind of show I wanted to create.

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I knew it was going to be based off of like human experiences and maybe reality, I wasn't too sure.
And me and Niles have always had this journey of figuring out what we wanted to do, what our business venture is.
We have tons of other business ventures, but we're just trying to figure out what we can do and what we can see in tangible, like in real time, build and grow.

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Because we have other things that we're working on, but we want to see something like right now that we can like touch and that's our baby and we can nurture.
So, we sat with the idea of doing a podcast and we're like, oh, we don't, we don't just want it to be just a podcast.
We want it to be more than a podcast.
.999So, we came up with Couples Unscripted.
Relationship show and it's going to be about so much more than just me and Niles here, you know sitting together I feel like now is the time for us to create this show because we have been together for eight years And we have gone through so much in our relationship that we want to share our relationship, but we also want to just have this dialogue because it took so long for us to get here to learn how to communicate, to accept, you know, each other's thought process and feelings.

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So we are here to share.
And I've.
.9995I've been talking to so many people who are struggling with relationships or how to be in them and the things that are working and are not working. 60 00:05:43,539.9995 --> 00:05:52,159.998 So we're like, we want to have a dialogue and we want to have conversations, around this, but we are not licensed professionals at all. 61 00:05:52,209.999 --> 00:05:58,339.999 I think one day I would love to be, but at this point, we are not licensed professionals, we are not therapists. 62 00:05:58,569.999 --> 00:06:03,319.999 everything we say comes from our experiences and the love that we have for one another. 63 00:06:03,659.999 --> 00:06:07,549.999 just take that into account if you do need to seek help. 64 00:06:08,89.999 --> 00:06:13,199.999 Within your relationship or with yourself, please reach out to a therapist or a relationship coach. 65 00:06:13,499.999 --> 00:06:28,759.999 But me and Niles are just here to really have these raw unfiltered conversations and to bring couples in and to have different segments and to have fun with talking about relationships and love and being single and that journey. 66 00:06:28,769.999 --> 00:06:31,524.899 Cause that's a whole nother fricking journey. 67 00:06:31,754.999 --> 00:06:37,654.999 Yeah, because we're not here to tell you how to have what to tell you about your relationship and how you should go in your relationship. 68 00:06:37,664.999 --> 00:06:40,24.999 Your relationship is uniquely your own relationship. 69 00:06:40,414.998 --> 00:06:48,934.998 Only thing we can do is tell you our experiences and tell you what we did do or what we may do in certain situations, scenarios. 70 00:06:49,104.998 --> 00:06:54,514.999 But that is also why we plan to, broaden the show, have couples on the street. 71 00:06:54,554.999 --> 00:06:59,164.999 Our street talk episode is releasing now, so you will get to be able to see it now on our YouTube. 72 00:06:59,499.999 --> 00:07:03,669.999 Right after you watch this episode, go check out our street talk episode. 73 00:07:03,889.999 --> 00:07:10,19.998 so we want to, we'll meet couples on the street and we'll ask them some questions from our couples on scripted card game. 74 00:07:10,29.999 --> 00:07:14,529.997 We'll ask them some questions, pertaining to their relationship and get the honest answers right then and there. 75 00:07:14,779.999 --> 00:07:16,409.999 right there in a moment, which is awesome. 76 00:07:16,419.998 --> 00:07:17,569.999 So it was really unfiltered. 77 00:07:17,629.999 --> 00:07:18,439.999 It's just raw. 78 00:07:18,689.999 --> 00:07:19,599.999 it's authentic. 79 00:07:20,244.999 --> 00:07:24,884.999 Answers, from the street and the day in the moment, we just catch them like, yo, yeah, it's fine. 80 00:07:24,894.999 --> 00:07:25,814.999 We'll be outside. 81 00:07:25,824.999 --> 00:07:26,524.999 Yeah, we outside. 82 00:07:26,524.999 --> 00:07:28,744.999 Y'all braving this Atlanta weather. 83 00:07:28,744.999 --> 00:07:29,574.999 That's been crazy. 84 00:07:29,574.999 --> 00:07:30,394.998 We've been in the snow. 85 00:07:30,424.999 --> 00:07:33,954.999 Look, y'all, we was dealing with a lot, yo, but we've been trying. 86 00:07:34,634.999 --> 00:07:38,834.9985 Each episode on couples unscripted is going to be 30 minutes. 87 00:07:38,834.9985 --> 00:07:40,564.999 So we're gonna have 30 minute episodes. 88 00:07:41,184.999 --> 00:07:45,34.999 They're going to be dropped every single Monday, so you can check us out every single Monday. 89 00:07:45,234.999 --> 00:08:01,864.999 As of now, me and Niles are going to be the main host of Couples Unscripted, so you will be seeing us every Monday, but don't get too comfortable because we might be switching things up, having Niles as the host, maybe somebody else in my seat, or maybe somebody else in his seat. 90 00:08:03,354.999 --> 00:08:11,814.999 Our goal with this show is to branch out and have different segments and to keep things fun. 91 00:08:12,174.999 --> 00:08:13,974.998 we're going to keep y'all on y'all's toes. 92 00:08:13,984.999 --> 00:08:30,869.999 Yeah, we're going to bring in different perspectives and give y'all different viewpoints because we have our viewpoints and our perspectives on things, but it may not be your viewpoint, your perspective, and we could bring someone in who can align with that and can speak to the way, hopefully, that You can digest and understand it. 93 00:08:30,869.999 --> 00:08:40,809.999 So yeah, be ready, for a little musical chairs, in regards to some of the hosts in front of the four couples unscripted and also just be ready for some different other. 94 00:08:41,199.999 --> 00:08:46,809.999 Segments and shows from us in particular, we already said the street talks, but we have worked on some other things. 95 00:08:46,849.999 --> 00:08:48,849.999 We haven't forgot about y'all single people. 96 00:08:48,949.999 --> 00:08:50,859.998 we want to talk directly to the singles. 97 00:08:51,99.999 --> 00:08:52,509.999 we will have a single edition. 98 00:08:52,709.998 --> 00:08:59,289.997 we working on a lot of things, so just be prepared for, what we have in the works in regards to be bringing in some couples in too. 99 00:08:59,469.997 --> 00:09:02,149.997 So we're going to be sitting down with couples having conversations as well. 100 00:09:02,574.997 --> 00:09:16,424.997 And don't forget that our Couples on the Street that Niall says you can watch now, it is going to be released every other Friday, so it's going to be twice a month that you'll be able to see Couples on the Street, Street Talks, so make sure you guys check that out. 101 00:09:16,994.997 --> 00:09:45,389.996 I know that you guys want to get to know us a little bit more, so we are going to play our Couples unscripted card game and just so you guys know we like to play games within our segment So when you see one you might get a little game here or there And it's just to get to know us as your host of the show So the episodes that you guys are going to be seeing over the course of a couple weeks You will get to know our dynamic in our relationship. 102 00:09:45,739.996 --> 00:09:48,59.996 But yeah, let's let's get into it. 103 00:09:48,109.996 --> 00:09:50,744.997 I go first Let me see. 104 00:09:51,404.997 --> 00:09:51,764.997 Okay. 105 00:09:51,944.997 --> 00:09:53,239.997 Straight off the top. 106 00:09:53,859.997 --> 00:09:55,784.997 Off the top, off the press. 107 00:09:55,844.997 --> 00:09:56,504.997 Fresh. 108 00:09:56,854.997 --> 00:09:57,394.997 All right. 109 00:09:57,484.997 --> 00:09:59,44.997 Question for you, miss Ana. 110 00:09:59,654.997 --> 00:10:17,214.997 What's up? All right, so how did, how did we meet? Yes, How did we meet? So me and Niles met through mutual friends of my sisters. 111 00:10:18,74.997 --> 00:10:20,624.997 So my friend, my sister had mutual friends. 112 00:10:20,654.997 --> 00:10:21,854.997 That's how I met Niles. 113 00:10:22,184.997 --> 00:10:23,804.997 There was a kickback happening. 114 00:10:25,134.997 --> 00:11:02,334.997 This was like eight years ago when kickbacks was kick back in, when we was out We was going to the the apartment parties or the house parties and having a good old time the jungle juice When I could actually do shots and now I can't So we got a kickback hosted by my sister and Niles was there, and I actually have, I did know Niles prior to that evening, I just didn't run in the same circle with him, so we never had a chance to actually really connect. 115 00:11:02,894.997 --> 00:11:12,884.997 So I was with my friends and we were drinking, you know, we was there before because that's my sister's house. 116 00:11:12,894.997 --> 00:11:14,134.997 So we was just chilling. 117 00:11:14,994.997 --> 00:11:20,934.997 So you guys came in and we said, Oh, he's cute. 118 00:11:20,944.997 --> 00:11:33,634.997 Like Niles is cute because everybody knew like Niles is cute, you know? So She, my friend had said, let's bet and to see who can get him first. 119 00:11:33,804.997 --> 00:11:34,284.997 Let's have a game. 120 00:11:34,294.997 --> 00:11:34,834.997 Let's bet. 121 00:11:36,24.997 --> 00:11:37,904.997 Let's bet and see who can get him first. 122 00:11:38,934.996 --> 00:11:41,804.996 It kind of is a game sometimes, like on some real shit. 123 00:11:45,94.997 --> 00:11:49,84.997 So, me, I have like no competition, like. 124 00:11:49,94.997 --> 00:11:50,734.997 Is that how you feel? Yes. 125 00:11:50,854.997 --> 00:11:51,184.997 Okay. 126 00:11:51,274.997 --> 00:11:51,964.997 That is how I felt. 127 00:11:53,134.997 --> 00:11:58,984.997 So I looked at him and you looked at me. 128 00:11:59,109.997 --> 00:12:00,304.997 I think I was looking at the couch. 129 00:12:01,384.997 --> 00:12:02,315.997 No, no, no. 130 00:12:02,509.997 --> 00:12:02,789.997 Uhuh. 131 00:12:03,754.997 --> 00:12:04,444.997 No sir. 132 00:12:04,444.997 --> 00:12:05,104.997 I looked at you. 133 00:12:05,954.997 --> 00:12:06,709.997 You looked at me. 134 00:12:06,949.997 --> 00:12:07,814.997 I looked at, I looked at you. 135 00:12:07,814.997 --> 00:12:08,474.997 It was like ga. 136 00:12:08,474.997 --> 00:12:09,644.997 It was like game on. 137 00:12:11,84.997 --> 00:12:12,164.997 I was like, game on. 138 00:12:12,164.997 --> 00:12:14,324.997 And then I looked at him and he's in the kitchen and then. 139 00:12:15,139.997 --> 00:12:16,269.997 We'd just look at each other. 140 00:12:16,399.997 --> 00:12:17,649.997 They ain't know when the game was on. 141 00:12:17,889.997 --> 00:12:21,599.997 You didn't know the game was on, but it was just like a, it was just a connection. 142 00:12:21,679.997 --> 00:12:23,559.997 It was just something there. 143 00:12:23,569.997 --> 00:12:24,309.997 We locked eyes. 144 00:12:24,509.997 --> 00:12:25,919.997 We locked eyes. 145 00:12:25,959.997 --> 00:12:27,942.44625 It was, that was, that was, that was stupid. 146 00:12:27,942.44625 --> 00:12:31,229.997 That was like, what the was that? Sparks. 147 00:12:31,589.997 --> 00:12:32,9.997 Yeah. 148 00:12:32,109.996 --> 00:12:35,199.997 It was something like, it was weird. 149 00:12:35,769.997 --> 00:12:36,989.997 Yeah, it was, it was, it was an energy. 150 00:12:37,29.997 --> 00:12:37,739.897 Yeah, it was, you know, like. 151 00:12:38,59.997 --> 00:12:38,759.997 It was weird. 152 00:12:38,769.997 --> 00:12:44,559.997 It was like, what? So I went over and I talked to him first. 153 00:12:45,199.997 --> 00:12:45,739.997 I did. 154 00:12:45,740.097 --> 00:12:45,889.897 Yeah. 155 00:12:45,889.997 --> 00:12:46,219.997 Yeah. 156 00:12:46,269.997 --> 00:12:47,839.997 You came up, put your hand up on my shoulder. 157 00:12:47,840.097 --> 00:12:48,449.997 I did. 158 00:12:48,449.997 --> 00:12:49,969.997 I'm a little touchy feely. 159 00:12:50,19.997 --> 00:12:54,109.997 So I did, you know, put my hand on you first. 160 00:12:54,109.997 --> 00:12:56,419.996 And I said, Oh, I, you know, I saw you walked in. 161 00:12:56,419.997 --> 00:12:57,869.9965 I didn't say, Hey. 162 00:12:57,869.9965 --> 00:13:00,959.997 And I said, I didn't, I haven't officially like met you. 163 00:13:01,9.997 --> 00:13:01,79.997 Yeah. 164 00:13:01,79.997 --> 00:13:01,709.997 Something like that. 165 00:13:01,709.997 --> 00:13:01,829.997 Yeah. 166 00:13:01,959.997 --> 00:13:02,169.997 Yeah. 167 00:13:02,169.997 --> 00:13:03,799.997 I said, I hadn't officially met you. 168 00:13:03,799.997 --> 00:13:05,149.997 And I wanted to say, Hey. 169 00:13:05,459.997 --> 00:13:12,109.997 Because we've been in the same room multiple times prior to, and just, Nothing happened. 170 00:13:12,110.097 --> 00:13:12,949.997 No, no conversation. 171 00:13:13,729.997 --> 00:13:13,989.997 Nothing. 172 00:13:13,989.997 --> 00:13:14,669.997 I didn't even look at him. 173 00:13:14,669.997 --> 00:13:15,749.997 It wasn't a hey or a bye. 174 00:13:15,750.097 --> 00:13:17,849.997 It wasn't a hey or a bye. 175 00:13:17,859.997 --> 00:13:20,759.997 It was that's a human being over there. 176 00:13:21,279.996 --> 00:13:24,39.996 Yeah, just another person in the room, you know, in a mix. 177 00:13:24,99.997 --> 00:13:25,459.997 So that was wild. 178 00:13:25,509.997 --> 00:13:26,309.997 But yeah, that was it. 179 00:13:26,309.997 --> 00:13:35,909.996 And then, from there we had a really good night and then We just never stopped talking after that, never took a break, never, never stopped talking. 180 00:13:36,699.996 --> 00:13:39,809.996 And here we are, eight years later, we still stand today. 181 00:13:39,859.995 --> 00:13:44,939.996 Eight years? I don't know, if it wasn't for the bet, I probably would have still talked to you that night. 182 00:13:45,509.996 --> 00:13:46,219.996 Because you were cute. 183 00:13:46,220.096 --> 00:13:50,489.995 I was, I was in my, hey, I was in my bag, yo, I was in my bag that night. 184 00:13:51,819.995 --> 00:13:53,569.995 I was feeling myself, that was the time. 185 00:13:54,289.995 --> 00:13:58,469.996 Was you looking for, was you looking for a lady that night? Nah, not really. 186 00:13:58,529.996 --> 00:14:01,29.996 You were just looking to have a chill night? Nah, I was just trying to have a good time. 187 00:14:01,39.996 --> 00:14:04,449.996 Yeah, I ain't want none of that drama, none of that stuff, you know? Like, I was just out with the boys. 188 00:14:04,449.996 --> 00:14:07,89.995 We had like a bonfire that night, earlier on that night. 189 00:14:07,469.996 --> 00:14:09,249.996 So I was coming from like a little bonfire. 190 00:14:09,249.996 --> 00:14:14,209.995 Like, we was lit, you know? And I was actually, that was just supposed to be like a pre game warm up. 191 00:14:14,814.996 --> 00:14:18,24.996 And we was supposed to go somewhere after that, or at least I was supposed to go somewhere after that. 192 00:14:18,64.996 --> 00:14:22,414.996 And then, I bumped into your little ass and changed your plans. 193 00:14:22,814.996 --> 00:14:23,314.996 And never. 194 00:14:23,314.996 --> 00:14:24,904.996 Then he met yours truly. 195 00:14:24,914.996 --> 00:14:29,104.996 Yeah, never went to go, I was supposed to go see someone that night and never made it. 196 00:14:29,724.995 --> 00:14:30,360.78157143 Cause we talked all night. 197 00:14:30,360.78157143 --> 00:14:31,664.995 You probably still could have made it. 198 00:14:31,934.996 --> 00:14:34,64.996 We talked all night, it was late as hell. 199 00:14:34,64.996 --> 00:14:35,244.996 Yeah, yeah, we did talk all night. 200 00:14:35,244.996 --> 00:14:36,814.996 And then I like walked you to your car, okay. 201 00:14:36,815.096 --> 00:14:38,324.896 And then we talked again, but anyway. 202 00:14:38,324.996 --> 00:14:39,444.996 Then we're getting into the weeds. 203 00:14:39,634.996 --> 00:14:41,394.996 But yeah, we, we met that night and that was. 204 00:14:41,984.996 --> 00:14:42,339.996 That was it. 205 00:14:42,359.996 --> 00:14:43,34.996 It was it, yeah. 206 00:14:43,644.996 --> 00:14:44,604.996 Ever since then, but Right. 207 00:14:45,429.996 --> 00:14:45,719.996 Okay. 208 00:14:45,724.996 --> 00:14:46,134.996 Okay. 209 00:14:46,134.996 --> 00:14:46,704.996 Your turn. 210 00:14:47,64.996 --> 00:14:47,244.996 Boom. 211 00:14:47,334.996 --> 00:14:49,224.996 Yeah, let's get this game rolling. 212 00:14:49,224.996 --> 00:14:54,784.996 You know, by the way, when we play, do, we do play some games together, like on a PS five, which is dope. 213 00:14:54,784.996 --> 00:14:57,264.996 Like, yo, I love playing games with her. 214 00:14:57,264.996 --> 00:14:59,4.996 So this FY we are a fun couple. 215 00:14:59,9.996 --> 00:14:59,959.996 We're, we're gamers. 216 00:15:00,114.996 --> 00:15:00,714.996 We're gamers. 217 00:15:00,714.996 --> 00:15:05,324.996 I'm a gamer, but she, she a little, I got a good one she played, but now's on the spot. 218 00:15:05,354.996 --> 00:15:05,564.996 Me. 219 00:15:05,684.996 --> 00:15:06,254.996 Alright, let's go. 220 00:15:07,9.996 --> 00:15:18,939.996 It's how did you propose and were you nervous? Well, I can say I wasn't nervous cause I knew I wanted to ask you to marry me off rip. 221 00:15:19,609.996 --> 00:15:30,749.996 I was just nervous that I wasn't going to get it right and I didn't because so how I proposed was, there was a, there was a picture that we had. 222 00:15:31,259.996 --> 00:15:33,9.996 of me and her that she really did like. 223 00:15:33,589.996 --> 00:15:37,579.996 And so what I did, I took that picture, I blew it up, and I made puzzle pieces out of it. 224 00:15:37,839.996 --> 00:15:41,529.996 And at the bottom it was like, will you marry me, on the very last end piece was marry me. 225 00:15:41,939.996 --> 00:15:45,419.996 and so we was putting that puzzle together while like, two weeks or something. 226 00:15:45,969.996 --> 00:15:47,439.995 And it started to come together. 227 00:15:47,839.995 --> 00:15:55,729.995 And as we got closer and closer to the end, she was like, oh, will you, and I'm like, and I'm looking for the very last piece, couldn't find it. 228 00:15:56,204.996 --> 00:16:09,594.996 And I was like, Oh my God, like what a piece and she like, yo, where's the ring food? Like, like, where's this ring? Listen, what's going on here? Like, you're like, I see this, this, this look great. 229 00:16:09,614.996 --> 00:16:10,534.995 This puzzle look great. 230 00:16:10,534.996 --> 00:16:15,114.9955 We look good, but this ain't, will you? Cause I like to do the end pieces on the, on a puzzle. 231 00:16:15,164.9955 --> 00:16:16,64.9955 I'm a puzzler. 232 00:16:16,454.9955 --> 00:16:17,534.9955 Yeah, she got puzzles. 233 00:16:17,694.9955 --> 00:16:18,784.9955 She be knocking them puzzles out. 234 00:16:18,904.9955 --> 00:16:19,924.9955 I like puzzles. 235 00:16:19,925.0955 --> 00:16:27,374.9955 I was doing the end pieces and I was like, where the hell is these pieces? It was like a chunk of the puzzle missing. 236 00:16:27,394.9955 --> 00:16:31,964.9945 I was like, what is going on? And I had the piece after I asked her to marry me and gave her the ring. 237 00:16:32,564.9945 --> 00:16:33,404.9945 It was in my pocket. 238 00:16:33,434.9955 --> 00:16:34,224.9955 It was just deep. 239 00:16:34,424.9955 --> 00:16:35,644.9955 I had like some windsuit pants. 240 00:16:35,644.9955 --> 00:16:36,714.9955 I didn't have the right. 241 00:16:36,765.0955 --> 00:16:38,834.9955 It was so typical Niles. 242 00:16:38,894.9955 --> 00:16:39,714.9955 It's on camera. 243 00:16:39,724.9955 --> 00:16:41,44.9955 Typical Niles, you have it on camera. 244 00:16:41,45.0955 --> 00:16:42,64.8955 Foolish. 245 00:16:42,64.9955 --> 00:16:43,674.8955 Just lost, lost, lost in the thoughts. 246 00:16:43,674.9955 --> 00:16:48,64.9955 And I was, he was like running around trying to find the piece and I was like, dude, just ask me. 247 00:16:48,74.9945 --> 00:16:49,324.9945 Yeah, I'm like, I need the piece first. 248 00:16:49,324.9945 --> 00:16:51,54.9955 I need to complete the thing before I can ask you. 249 00:16:51,64.9945 --> 00:16:52,914.9955 And she was like, fool. 250 00:16:52,954.9945 --> 00:16:57,754.9955 And I was like, where is the ring? Cause I wanted to know which one he picked out. 251 00:16:57,784.9955 --> 00:16:58,404.9955 Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. 252 00:16:58,754.9955 --> 00:17:03,634.9955 And ladies, I don't know, or I don't know what's this talk about him picking out the ring. 253 00:17:03,844.9955 --> 00:17:04,794.9955 That's foolishness. 254 00:17:04,794.9955 --> 00:17:05,854.9955 that is crazy to me. 255 00:17:05,854.9955 --> 00:17:06,464.9955 I don't understand. 256 00:17:06,484.9945 --> 00:17:07,224.9955 I had options. 257 00:17:07,759.9955 --> 00:17:08,979.9955 Listen, you had two options. 258 00:17:09,249.9955 --> 00:17:10,559.9955 Number one, you can't get it wrong. 259 00:17:10,569.9955 --> 00:17:12,49.9955 Because I picked out the two options I saw. 260 00:17:12,49.9955 --> 00:17:14,549.9955 Was it three? I saw three rings when I went. 261 00:17:14,739.9955 --> 00:17:15,625.0455 Oh, maybe it was three options. 262 00:17:15,625.0455 --> 00:17:16,189.9955 Yeah, it was three. 263 00:17:16,779.9945 --> 00:17:18,639.9955 But only one stood out to me. 264 00:17:18,909.9955 --> 00:17:19,519.9955 Right. 265 00:17:19,539.9955 --> 00:17:19,799.9955 Yeah. 266 00:17:19,869.9955 --> 00:17:21,329.9945 Or my mom pushed you that way. 267 00:17:21,449.9955 --> 00:17:22,359.9945 Nah, she didn't have to. 268 00:17:22,669.9945 --> 00:17:24,519.8945 I saw what it was like and that's what it was. 269 00:17:24,519.9945 --> 00:17:30,489.9955 No, but, not sure what all this Talk is about him picking out the ring. 270 00:17:31,349.9955 --> 00:17:32,909.9955 Don't know where that's coming from. 271 00:17:33,149.9955 --> 00:17:34,919.9955 I'm gonna always pick out my ring. 272 00:17:34,949.9955 --> 00:17:38,449.9955 As soon as you said, oh, we're talking about when we're talking about like getting married. 273 00:17:38,449.9955 --> 00:17:38,489.9945 Oh, yes. 274 00:17:39,109.9955 --> 00:17:42,619.9945 I'm going ring shopping because I'm You, yes. 275 00:17:43,459.9955 --> 00:17:51,734.9955 As soon as the conversation began about Marriage and like just hinting at that you were like, Oh, I'm calling my mom to go green shop. 276 00:17:51,934.9955 --> 00:17:57,324.9955 But I do think that the three options was good because it's like these, any of these would be really nice. 277 00:17:58,144.9945 --> 00:18:04,284.9955 And I don't know if you know y'all are into that, but don't let no man pick out no ring for you. 278 00:18:04,654.9965 --> 00:18:05,64.9945 No ma'am. 279 00:18:05,154.9965 --> 00:18:06,214.9965 You got to wear it. 280 00:18:06,214.9965 --> 00:18:06,854.9965 It's on your finger. 281 00:18:07,164.9955 --> 00:18:11,284.9955 If you like that, then maybe, maybe she likes that or he or she likes that. 282 00:18:11,284.9955 --> 00:18:12,764.9955 But for me, no. 283 00:18:12,824.9955 --> 00:18:15,124.9955 You needed to make sure it fit your hand. 284 00:18:15,374.9955 --> 00:18:16,244.9955 Exactly. 285 00:18:16,254.9955 --> 00:18:20,574.9669286 And how did I do out of the three rings? I mean, this was my favorite pick. 286 00:18:20,574.9669286 --> 00:18:21,214.9383571 it's beautiful. 287 00:18:21,214.9383571 --> 00:18:23,625.0087857 Because I just know, you know, when you know, you know. 288 00:18:23,775.0097857 --> 00:18:24,435.0097857 Exactly. 289 00:18:24,535.0097857 --> 00:18:25,805.0087857 But it looked good, so. 290 00:18:26,55.0097857 --> 00:18:38,755.0087857 So that was our couple's unscripted card game, and we will be playing a bit more games throughout the episodes like we said, but we are going to go ahead and dive into identifying green flags in a relationship. 291 00:18:38,765.0087857 --> 00:18:40,195.0097857 So let's jump into it. 292 00:18:41,715.0097857 --> 00:18:56,810.0097857 Alright, so let's talk about And how you identify and if you see him like what are the green flags that you may see us seeing someone and we're talking about not the green flags where they are masquerading as red flags. 293 00:18:56,810.0097857 --> 00:19:02,460.0092857 We are talking about actual green flags with substance that you they are vetted and they are. 294 00:19:02,695.0092857 --> 00:19:12,335.0092857 At the core of value of yours, because if they went against this, it'll be a direct red flag to what you may want out of your partner. 295 00:19:12,345.0092857 --> 00:19:25,10.0082857 So these green flags that we're going to talk about that you can identify in a partner or someone you're with, that you probably should, when you do identify, I think it's good to champion, let your partner know that, Hey, I love this about you. 296 00:19:25,40.0082857 --> 00:19:27,200.0082857 Those small gestures I think can go a long way. 297 00:19:27,300.0082857 --> 00:19:30,770.0082857 Yeah, I think what speaks to me the most is feeling safe. 298 00:19:30,860.0082857 --> 00:19:31,260.0082857 Okay. 299 00:19:31,320.0082857 --> 00:19:35,650.0072857 So feeling safe with your feelings and being able to express yourself. 300 00:19:36,70.0082857 --> 00:19:38,660.0082857 I know just for me and past relationships. 301 00:19:39,320.0082857 --> 00:19:45,440.0082857 I wasn't able to feel like safe with talking about my emotions and really being vulnerable. 302 00:19:45,700.0082857 --> 00:19:58,290.0072857 So if you are able to speak your mind, be emotional and be vulnerable with someone because you feel safe and you feel a sense of security and safety, that's a green flag. 303 00:19:58,490.0072857 --> 00:19:59,30.0072857 Oh, nice. 304 00:19:59,330.0072857 --> 00:20:07,560.0082857 If they communicate openly and they're honest and they stay true to their word and their actions are always like. 305 00:20:07,930.0082857 --> 00:20:08,840.0082857 consistent. 306 00:20:09,400.0082857 --> 00:20:14,560.0082857 If you keep seeing consistency with an action and what they're saying, that's a green flag. 307 00:20:14,750.0082857 --> 00:20:17,240.0082857 Yeah, I think that's, I think those are great green flags. 308 00:20:17,240.0082857 --> 00:20:25,680.0082857 Also, I believe if, like you said, the actions, they follow through with what they're saying, if there's a date scheduled, like y'all commit to that date and they take you out on a date. 309 00:20:25,680.0082857 --> 00:20:26,480.0082857 that's major. 310 00:20:26,540.0082857 --> 00:20:58,470.0082857 and when it comes to these green flags, When you identified a green flag in me for instance What was it for you? what did it do for you? Like when you were like, yo, this is a green flag Did it like make you like fall in love with me? I think it just gave me the reassurance that I need in the relationship to feel safe and secure So I'm not always You know within a green flag I wouldn't be trying to figure out where I was in this relationship. 311 00:20:59,610.0082857 --> 00:21:04,990.0082857 I knew that I was, like, I, I wasn't second guessing the relationship. 312 00:21:05,0.0082857 --> 00:21:07,40.0082857 I wasn't second guessing where we stand. 313 00:21:07,40.0082857 --> 00:21:14,720.0092857 What is this? What are we trying to do here? Where are we going? with you, you had always given me the reassurance, no, I want to pursue you. 314 00:21:14,730.0092857 --> 00:21:15,930.0092857 This is what I want. 315 00:21:16,260.0092857 --> 00:21:17,870.0092857 this is the path that we're on. 316 00:21:17,870.0092857 --> 00:21:28,745.0092857 So when you see somebody Giving you the reassurance and setting things up for you guys and you see that there's a clear path. 317 00:21:29,525.0092857 --> 00:21:31,385.0092857 that's a green flag because you're not questioning. 318 00:21:32,245.0092857 --> 00:21:36,165.0092857 They give you a sense of clarity, which I think is a green flag. 319 00:21:36,165.0092857 --> 00:21:40,835.0082857 If someone can provide you a sense of clarity, a sense of, like you said, understanding a path. 320 00:21:40,925.0092857 --> 00:21:45,505.0082857 I will guess I can kind of relate it to, I'll use a little segment of us real quick. 321 00:21:45,575.0082857 --> 00:21:52,455.0082857 when you in a long distance portion, I had to commit to come and see you, I gave you the reassurance. 322 00:21:53,120.0082857 --> 00:21:57,770.0082857 in our relationship by being, we put that date on the calendar. 323 00:21:58,170.0082857 --> 00:22:00,530.0082857 Hey babe, I'm coming down this time in March. 324 00:22:00,890.0072857 --> 00:22:01,520.0072857 I was there. 325 00:22:01,530.0082857 --> 00:22:03,540.0082857 And I believe that's the type of reinsurance. 326 00:22:03,570.0082857 --> 00:22:07,640.0082857 That's the type of green flag that you should see from someone who wants to be your partner. 327 00:22:08,0.0082857 --> 00:22:10,20.0072857 especially it's not only short term, but long term. 328 00:22:10,200.0062857 --> 00:22:16,360.0072857 You saying how you had to follow through and you gave me the reassurance by coming down in the long distance, you were showing up. 329 00:22:16,740.0072857 --> 00:22:19,890.0072857 So you're how you are. 330 00:22:20,330.0072857 --> 00:22:24,780.0072857 Speaking in the relationship and the things that you're saying have to match up to the action. 331 00:22:24,780.0072857 --> 00:23:03,689.9082857 I mean, we all know that that's true So I see I've seen in my friends relationships or people that I know The action or the words ain't matching up to the action so if If the action is there, okay, we got, it's matching up, but if he's talking that talk, talk, talk and doing all that love bombing or we're not seeing any action, if it's a lot of love bombing and there's no action, that's not a green flag, but if the green flag is talking the talk and walking the walk, so don't just talk about it, but be about it. 332 00:23:03,740.0082857 --> 00:23:08,380.0082857 He says, Hey, I like to do, give you flowers and he showed with flowers type of thing. 333 00:23:08,410.0082857 --> 00:23:08,910.0082857 Right. 334 00:23:09,180.0082857 --> 00:23:17,20.0082857 Or if it's, I'm going, we are going to hang out and we're going to go to dinner, I'm going to pick you up. 335 00:23:18,435.0082857 --> 00:23:19,755.0082857 I don't want to hear about this. 336 00:23:19,825.0082857 --> 00:23:25,125.0082857 Oh, I got off work late and I was in a meeting and Oh, I can't do that. 337 00:23:25,365.0082857 --> 00:23:25,905.0082857 No, no, no, no. 338 00:23:25,905.0082857 --> 00:23:37,615.0082857 No, you need to have things in place and in line I know that things happen, but if that is the consistent thing in Your actions are not Aligning with what you said. 339 00:23:37,705.0082857 --> 00:23:40,365.0082857 No, but if they do, it's a green flag. 340 00:23:40,385.0082857 --> 00:23:41,95.0082857 Yes, definitely. 341 00:23:41,95.1082857 --> 00:23:42,525.0082857 I think it is. 342 00:23:42,525.0082857 --> 00:23:42,845.0082857 Yeah. 343 00:23:43,105.0082857 --> 00:24:04,785.0082857 Also, I believe, you can tell that the person you with you are in a green flag type of situation or you are in a very Partnership is like when you say earlier you have in conversations and it may get tested or heated and instead of them deflecting or projecting, they able to sit back, take accountability, apologize. 344 00:24:04,815.0092857 --> 00:24:09,55.0082857 And then here we go again with the word able to adjust the action accordingly. 345 00:24:09,405.0082857 --> 00:24:11,665.0082857 Those are also green flags. 346 00:24:11,665.0082857 --> 00:24:18,690.0092857 I think, I'm sorry, not sorry, I've said this before, but I think a lot of people have said this before in regards to nice guys finish and last. 347 00:24:18,690.0092857 --> 00:24:22,170.0092857 Well, there has been a sense of that. 348 00:24:23,495.0092857 --> 00:24:33,845.0092857 If you identify those green flags and those nice guys, women, like you can't be poopooing on it because you can't run to that red flag and expect green flag behavior. 349 00:24:33,855.0092857 --> 00:24:47,585.0092857 Like, no, like it just not like, and so for the people who are green flag people who do have a high moral compass, who do carry themselves the right way, who are for the people who are chivalrous and can. 350 00:24:47,820.0092857 --> 00:24:59,780.0082857 Whole conversation who exudes what the green flags on what a good partner is continue to be that because for those people who can't identify who you are, that's their loss, so don't change your way. 351 00:24:59,800.0092857 --> 00:25:05,164.9092857 Don't be a walking red flag because someone didn't want to accept the green flag that you are. 352 00:25:05,655.0092857 --> 00:25:06,15.0092857 Right. 353 00:25:06,25.0092857 --> 00:25:14,375.0092857 Because a lot of people would eventually get scorned and you start feeling hurt and then you start, and you would change because people didn't appreciate you. 354 00:25:14,375.0092857 --> 00:25:21,965.0087857 But no, you are who you are and keep being that green flag because when the right one comes around, Hey, it's going to be worth it. 355 00:25:22,275.0087857 --> 00:25:35,712.9495857 For me, a green flag that you had is when, is like your ability to like, you're very like, like very mothering in a way like you can really be like. 356 00:25:36,63.0495857 --> 00:25:53,8.0505857 Oh my baby and that's that's warms your heart like you can you very like you touchy and like those are green flags those affirmation things are green flags i think we have a good symbiosis in regards to our love language and how we kind of We are energy together. 357 00:25:53,8.0505857 --> 00:25:54,298.0505857 So I thought those are green flags. 358 00:25:54,298.1505857 --> 00:26:02,658.0495857 I think, I have identified in you just one that's coming up in my mind is peace being at peace. 359 00:26:02,668.0505857 --> 00:26:11,548.0495857 So when you feel stress or you have anxiety or you've just had a long day, if you can call your partner. 360 00:26:11,928.0505857 --> 00:26:15,948.0505857 and feel a sense of peace and calmness, that is a green flag. 361 00:26:17,568.0505857 --> 00:26:28,148.0510857 That's as green as you can get because you're going to them seeking that peace and that warm hug, that warm sensation, that warm feeling, and you guys can vent and talk together. 362 00:26:28,148.0510857 --> 00:26:33,608.0510857 That is an extreme green flag that you should look at and say, hell yeah, check that off. 363 00:26:34,43.0510857 --> 00:26:42,273.0500857 He's calling me because he, and he's calling me to vent or tell me about his day and what he's going through because he feels peace and he feels safe with you. 364 00:26:42,533.0510857 --> 00:26:42,583.0510857 Yes. 365 00:26:42,973.0510857 --> 00:26:54,378.0510857 So just for me, when I'm in a situation or when I'm in an area where I'm feeling overwhelmed and I'm with Niles, I'm like Just talk to me real quick. 366 00:26:54,838.0510857 --> 00:26:56,438.0510857 I need you because you're my peace. 367 00:26:56,798.0510857 --> 00:26:59,358.0510857 And I've said that multiple times, you are my peace. 368 00:26:59,358.0510857 --> 00:27:03,928.0510857 I come home to peace and to a calm environment. 369 00:27:04,18.0510857 --> 00:27:23,813.0510857 Watch out how they handle stress and conflict and frustrating situations because an individual with that green flag is going to bring you peace and calmness and is not going to heighten your nerves or make you feel anxious. 370 00:27:24,203.0510857 --> 00:27:29,83.0510857 So look out for, feeling calm through your body instead of feeling tense. 371 00:27:29,483.0510857 --> 00:27:37,733.0510857 Green flag is indicators or characteristics that you see in someone that are, that align first with your moral and your values. 372 00:27:37,983.0510857 --> 00:27:44,813.0510857 and there are things that you expect out of a partner and They meet those or exceed those expectations. 373 00:27:44,853.0510857 --> 00:27:46,833.0510857 and they do it without trying naturally. 374 00:27:46,883.0510857 --> 00:27:48,353.0510857 So those are green flags, I think. 375 00:27:48,353.0510857 --> 00:27:58,572.9510857 So if someone is naturally carrying into the point to where they are attentive listeners and you can talk and vent to them and then you can communicate with them, I think those are. 376 00:27:58,813.0510857 --> 00:28:09,773.0500857 Attributes to someone who may be a green flag type of person, or are they able to, they schedule things out and plan things accordingly, if you are a man of your word or a woman of your word, that's a green flag characteristic. 377 00:28:11,173.0510857 --> 00:28:41,763.1135857 Just being just a high moral, moral compass person, like having a good moral compass and not trying to get over on people, not being scammed, a scammy type of person, like not looking at a relationship as a, just an opportunity to make money or to live off someone like you, a green flag person, someone who wants to get in a relationship as a partner and have a family, And whatever sense of a family is that makes sense to y'all. 378 00:28:42,13.1135857 --> 00:28:58,623.1125857 So I think, you as your own individual and own person should really sit down with yourself and, and go through a checklist of like, yo, what are the green flags that I'm looking for in a partner, just like you should have a list of the red flags that you are looking out for. 379 00:28:58,623.1125857 --> 00:29:14,993.2125857 What are the green flags? Because sometimes we may overlook those green flags and you may, Miss out on something that's really, really good just because you wasn't aware of someone hitting those markers that you really, really need and not the things that you think that you want. 380 00:29:15,33.2125857 --> 00:29:24,613.2115857 Yeah, notice if your partner or your current partner or your partner that you want to get involved with demonstrates those qualities that we've been talking about today. 381 00:29:24,643.2115857 --> 00:29:26,413.2115857 So check those. 382 00:29:26,763.2125857 --> 00:29:32,213.2125857 write those down and they got that, they got that, they got that, then, then you might be on the right path. 383 00:29:32,453.2125857 --> 00:29:47,433.2125857 So, it's all about creating peace in your life and having peace in your relationship and getting along and creating something that's gonna propel forward and creating a foundation is what you are striving to get at. 384 00:29:47,443.2125857 --> 00:29:50,453.2125857 All that other foolish nonsense, you know. 385 00:29:51,318.2125857 --> 00:29:52,958.2125857 I ain't talking about all that. 386 00:29:52,998.2125857 --> 00:29:55,358.1125857 Yeah, we don't have time for that. 387 00:29:55,358.2125857 --> 00:29:57,98.2125857 That ain't the key to success. 388 00:29:57,98.3125857 --> 00:30:00,658.2125857 No, no, we are here for the key to successful relationship. 389 00:30:00,938.2125857 --> 00:30:03,368.2125857 We want happiness, we want love, we want good energy. 390 00:30:03,728.2125857 --> 00:30:04,568.2125857 That's what we're here for. 391 00:30:04,708.2115857 --> 00:30:09,198.2125857 But also, look in the mirror and see what green flags that you possess. 392 00:30:09,488.2125857 --> 00:30:18,768.2125857 And are you a person who are actually worthy of a relationship, of being in a certain dynamic, Because I think a lot of time, we like to look at other people. 393 00:30:19,638.2125857 --> 00:30:21,948.2125857 it start with self everything start with self. 394 00:30:21,948.2125857 --> 00:30:29,568.2125857 if you are around a, in a bunch of relationships and dynamics, there are red flag dynamics in situations, you're probably a red flag also. 395 00:30:29,618.2125857 --> 00:30:30,968.2125857 birds with feather flock together. 396 00:30:30,968.2125857 --> 00:30:39,578.2125857 So change your ways and identify what are your green flags? What are your strong suits? What are your high characteristic traits? Right? Lean into that. 397 00:30:39,818.2125857 --> 00:30:42,98.2125857 Right? Be that and shine bright in those lights. 398 00:30:42,468.2125857 --> 00:30:49,88.2125857 because I think, green flags roll with green flags, if you had a lot of red flags, I wouldn't be with you. 399 00:30:49,88.2125857 --> 00:30:56,348.2125857 And I'm sure if I had a lot of red flags that red flags, I wouldn't be with him either. 400 00:30:56,348.2125857 --> 00:30:57,568.2125857 But yeah, that's a good point though. 401 00:30:57,568.2125857 --> 00:31:01,448.2130857 You got to look, you got to look within and you got to see what else, what you have going on. 402 00:31:01,448.2130857 --> 00:31:03,358.2130857 I know throughout these episodes, like I talk about. 403 00:31:03,778.2130857 --> 00:31:29,393.2130857 A lot about my journey and what I've been through and what I've learned and how I have grown over these eight years So yes, it's always great to look within and look at yourself and see what you can do to improve Or is it something that you're doing? to Have these relationships not propel forward, because you have some of the you don't you're you don't even have the green flags Like you might have some of the red flags. 404 00:31:29,403.2130857 --> 00:31:36,143.2130857 So it's not it's not a blame game it's just really looking within and trying to figure out like What works and what doesn't work. 405 00:31:36,183.2130857 --> 00:31:39,463.2130857 Yeah, I feel like our relationship grow as I grow. 406 00:31:39,973.2130857 --> 00:31:46,933.2130857 So if I continue to grow and work on myself and be a better version of myself, the same thing can be said for my relationship. 407 00:31:47,13.2120857 --> 00:31:47,543.2120857 Cheers. 408 00:31:47,543.2130857 --> 00:31:47,953.2130857 One last. 409 00:31:47,973.2130857 --> 00:31:49,403.2130857 Yeah, let's cheers. 410 00:31:49,653.2130857 --> 00:31:50,953.2130857 I'm almost out of wine. 411 00:31:50,963.2130857 --> 00:31:52,863.2120857 Listen, I'll drink a lot of wine. 412 00:31:52,863.2130857 --> 00:31:55,23.2130857 A lot of wine on these episodes. 413 00:31:55,23.3130857 --> 00:31:57,563.2130857 All right, y'all gotta get through. 414 00:31:58,13.2130857 --> 00:31:59,383.2130857 It's wine all day, every day, baby. 415 00:31:59,403.2130857 --> 00:32:01,193.2130857 That's how I, that's how I get through. 416 00:32:01,738.2130857 --> 00:32:09,648.2130857 So I will be pouring up after we get off here more, but we thank you guys so much for joining us. 417 00:32:09,898.2130857 --> 00:32:15,628.2130857 Again, please check out couples on the street, street talks where I get to interview some people on the streets and me too. 418 00:32:15,878.2120857 --> 00:32:25,338.2130857 Hey, well, we make an appearance just so you know, it is going to be me and Niles hosting couples on the streets and we do a back and forth. 419 00:32:25,338.2130857 --> 00:32:26,128.2130857 So it might be him. 420 00:32:26,128.2130857 --> 00:32:26,658.2130857 It's going to be me. 421 00:32:26,658.2130857 --> 00:32:27,78.2130857 It's going to be him. 422 00:32:27,88.2130857 --> 00:32:27,498.2130857 It's going to be me. 423 00:32:27,778.2130857 --> 00:32:28,768.2130857 It's going to be a little ping pong. 424 00:32:29,78.2130857 --> 00:32:29,748.2130857 So. 425 00:32:30,48.2130857 --> 00:32:31,268.2130857 Yeah, look out for it. 426 00:32:31,268.2130857 --> 00:32:33,518.2130857 Don't run from us on when you see us on the streets of Atlanta. 427 00:32:33,528.2130857 --> 00:32:34,38.2130857 We're coming. 428 00:32:34,38.2130857 --> 00:32:40,18.2130857 Okay, please make sure you guys like, comment, share and subscribe to our YouTube channel. 429 00:32:40,28.2130857 --> 00:32:41,328.2130857 Couples unscripted. 430 00:32:41,708.2130857 --> 00:32:49,98.2140857 You can find us on instagram, threads, tiktok and facebook all at couples unscripted. 431 00:32:49,348.2130857 --> 00:32:52,108.2130857 We are on all podcast platforms. 432 00:32:52,138.2130857 --> 00:32:56,998.2130857 So if you'd like to watch us on a podcast streaming platform, you are more than welcome to. 433 00:32:56,998.2130857 --> 00:32:57,978.2130857 We are on there. 434 00:32:58,213.2130857 --> 00:33:11,23.2120857 Monday we are going to be dropping another episode which is going to continue our every Monday drop so please check out our episode on Monday and we thank you guys so much for tuning in with us. 435 00:33:11,93.2120857 --> 00:33:13,343.2130857 We will see you on the next episode.