Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Relationships, Dating with Kids, Online Dating, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Dating Red Flags, God-Led Relationship

Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Relationships, Dating with Kids, Online Dating, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Dating Red Flags, God-Led Relationship

I’m Patty Martin-Guerra, and this podcast proves that your greatest love story is coming, I found love at nearly 50 – not by luck, but by surrendering myself to the Lord.. For years, I believed ”love isn’t in the cards for women like me” and attracted toxic relationships because my wounded inner voice believed I deserved less than God’s best. Everything changed when I embraced Matthew 6:33 says, ”But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” When I stopped chasing love and started pursuing wholeness, letting God heal my past traumas, everything shifted. If I found an incredible, healthy, God sent love at nearly 50, having two kids and a complicated past, so can you. Age isn’t your enemy. Your children aren’t obstacles. Your divorce isn’t a scarlet letter. Every Tuesday, we meet in this space where divorced women become whole, and broken hearts become wise hearts. Sister, your love story isn’t over – it’s just getting to the good part. Subscribe and leave a review so this message reaches more women who need to hear it. Blessings!

Episodes

July 21, 2025 8 mins

The difference between healthy desire for companionship and desperate loneliness.

Understanding your single season as sacred space, not a waiting room.

Recognizing when loneliness is driving decisions vs. genuine readiness. Learn how to wait well: honesty, intentionality, and contentment.

Why God's timing involves preparation, not withholding

Featured Scripture: Ecclesiastes 3:1 - "To every thing there is a season, and a time t...

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Learn the Pros and Cons when multi dating.

 

If you feel stuck in your dating journey or would like to prepare yourself to receive your prince charming, contact me for a 1-1 session

 

 

Schedule Here Your Free 3-Minute Session

 

 

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July 8, 2025 10 mins

Let's explore one of the most important but least discussed topics in love:

the need to heal our emotional wounds before seeking a partner. In this episode you'll discover:

Why we tend to rush into relationships as an escape mechanism The signs that indicate you need time to heal before starting a new relationship How childhood wounds and past relationships influence our current romantic decisions Practical strategies for taking t...

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"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!" - 2 Corinthians 5:17 Your divorce decree isn't a life sentence – it's a permission slip to become who you were always meant to be.

Stop asking 'Why did this happen to me?' and start asking 'How is this preparing me for what's next?

The right person won't see your past as baggage – they'll see it as the journey that made you the inc...

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In this episode, we explore the crucial differences between genuine attentiveness and subtle manipulation in dating relationships. Learn to identify red flags and green flags while developing biblical discernment in your romantic relationships. Key Topics Covered:

Characteristics of genuine attentiveness vs. manipulation Red flags that indicate manipulative behavior Green flags of healthy, attentive partners The importance of trust...

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June 17, 2025 7 mins

Listen to this episode and learn the emotional complications that dating someone not yet divorced gives you emotional complications include being second priority, dealing with unresolved baggage, and relationship instability

 

Bible Verses Referenced:

Psalm 27:14 - Wait on the Lord

 

If you would like guidance in your dating journey and save yourself some headaches and years of disappointments, schedule a 1-1 sesion with me. 

 

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Are your dating standards keeping you from finding love?

 

In this episode, we explore the difference between healthy standards and unrealistic expectations that might be sabotaging your relationships. From social media influence to past hurt protection, we uncover where impossible expectations come from and how they're costing us genuine connections.

Key Topics Covered: The Movie Hero Complex and other common unrealistic expectat...

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If you've been struggling in the dating world, feeling discouraged about love, or wondering if God has forgotten about your heart's desires - this episode is specifically for you.

Three years ago, I was exactly where you might be right now. Exhausted from dating apps, healing from toxic relationships, and wondering if real, godly love was even possible for someone like me. I was ready to give up on love altogether.

But then somet...

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