Deeper Sex - The podcast about deeper connections and adventure

Most people think the key to better sex and exciting relationships is learning the right moves or finding "The One".

In an interview with one of our teachers, Will and I talk about why the patterns that hold you back in bed are the same ones that limit you in life. Why lack of intimacy isn’t about the other person, the sex positions, or your performance. And why feeling stuck, unseen, or frustrated in your relationship often has de...

To celebrate our podcast 1st anniversary, we address our clients’ most common questions in a live Q&A - from jealousy to sexual dynamics and open relationships.

Partner communication, establishing trust, and addressing underlying issues in a relationship are some of the things we are experts on, and our goal is to provide you with practical tips that will enhance your romantic connections.

If you feel even a little curious but ...

Threesomes are one of the most common fantasies - yet only few people have the courage to act on them. Is it something you should try, or is it better left as a fantasy?

In this episode, Will and Chiara explore the psychology behind group sex, the gap between fantasy and reality, and how to decide whether a threesome is right for you.

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Will and Chiara tackle another taboo topic that many men (and their partners) struggle with, but rarely discuss openly: erections.

From performance anxiety to the pressure of always staying hard, they explore how much of the struggle is psychological rather than physical.

They discuss how shame, unrealistic expectations, and overthinking can interfere with arousal, and share practical ways to overcome these challenges. From breakin...

This is a must-listen for both men and women looking to feel more, longer and better orgasms.

Today’s episode will completely transform your understanding of what “coming” is:

Did you know that there are many types of orgasms for women?

And did you know that men can orgasm without ejaculating… and vice versa?

Love and intimacy coaches Will and Chiara challenge common beliefs around clitoral stimulation and vibrators, sharing their ...

Download our free guide: “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner”

Changing gears with Season 2, love and intimacy coaches Will and Chiara explain in very simple terms the concept of relationship Polarity, and the importance of balancing the masculine and feminine energies that you input in a relationship - regardless of your gender.

They show how a polarity imbalance often leads to conflict, blaming, ...

Guess what! We’ve been live for 6 months already, and we have a big surprise coming up for you!

We are closing out Season 1 of the Deeper Sex Podcast to come back with Season 2 and offer something even more exciting and useful to you and your lover, in and out of the bedroom.

We believe that sex should not be the driver of arguments and unhappiness for a couple. Nor should it be taboo. 

We have witnessed, tried and tested on our ow...

Will and Chiara are interviewed by Human Design coach Adriana to explore how they transformed their lives through sexual exploration and liberation. 

They’ve made intimacy coaching their life’s purpose, because there’s so much fun and sex to be had in life, that everyone should be able to experience it! 

They talk about their journey of following their hearts and intuition, instead of conforming to what others expected. They highli...

How open(-minded) are you, really? And how "free" do you feel?

Our biggest fear is not being loved. And fears keep us stuck in the comfort zone. But what happens when we suspend fear?

While reflecting on our peculiar summer, we explain how openness, curiosity, and feeling comfortable in your own body can bring you a deeper sense of connection and, ultimately, freedom.

There's a different flavour when you meet people who are willing...

Communication is THE KEY in enhancing relationships and sexual experiences.

Drawing from our personal and professional experiences, we share practical tips on how you can initiate open dialogues about desires, needs, and fantasies with your partner.

As always we emphasise on creating a safe space for vulnerability, avoiding blame, and using creative alternative methods like scheduled talks, writing sexy emails to each other and, ...

Jealousy can serve as a useful tool in relationships when rooted in objective facts: it can be a sign of real issues, but also a reflection of deeper insecurities. How do you know?

In this episode we cover the various sides of jealousy, how to understand when it is keeping you safe, vs. when it’s signalling that there’s something deeper to look into – your body generally knows best.

We look at jealousy in the context of ENM couples...

Have you ever dreamt of joining a threesome but never dared ask your partner? It’s a universal fantasy, and one that can become reality with trust and good communication.

In this episode, we share a very intimate experience where we pushed our boundaries further than ever before: for the first and only time in our life, Chiara is "lent" for the night as a Unicorn to Allie and her husband, while Will is away on an expedition.

He tal...

Are you “vanilla” or “spicy”? Are you into ENM? Are you not? Are you curious? How much should you share about this with your friends? And should you drag them into this exploration with you?

These are all themes we discuss in this episode, focusing on the importance of respecting the boundaries of people around you.

While we could not wish for deeper connections and the personal growth that we've gained from exploring ourselves the...

Have you ever experienced how sensuality and soft touch can 10x your sexual encounters? 

Listen to the sensual birthday surprise that Chiara arranged for her husband Will: beyond the sexiness of it all, you’ll learn how embracing sensuality, soft touch, and vulnerability can positively impact your intimacy - and your relationship overall.

Will describes his struggle to relax and surrender to receiving attention from his woman, and ...

Almost everyone carries with them a sexual fantasy they don’t dare to share. We hesitate to reveal our desires, even to a loving partner, out of shame or fear of judgment.

Some fantasies are scenes you might like to live out for real. Others will remain sexy movies that we play just for ourselves. Either way, fantasies are erotic fuel – and their power multiplies if you find courage to voice them.

In this super-sexy episode, we mad...

This is our Origin Stories episode. Hear about the journeys that brought Allie, Will and Chiara from conservative childhoods, breakdowns, divorces and body shame to happiness and the strongest relationships of their lives.

We explain how we discovered ENM (ethical non-monogamy), survived novice mistakes and navigated the circus, but also how we learned to communicate to each other fearlessly, established trust and practiced standin...

Body image is a very common problem for both men and women. Today we discuss how negative perceptions can impact intimacy and relationships, and how healing and personal growth can transform your sex life and deepen your connection.

Women in particular often feel negatively about their appearance due to societal standards, so Chiara vulnerably shares her journey back to loving her body.

We also explore how the lens of positive self...

Would you prefer transactional sex or deeper, more intimate and sensual connections?

Today we share our personal journey of learning how to shift boundaries in the ENM and kinky world that we sometimes play in, and draw lessons for how intimacy and sensuality can supercharge connections - in all kinds of relationships.

We talk about how rare it is to find partners who share a similar emphasis on slow, intimate play, and we will pro...