270. How to Trust Others (and Still Protect Your Loved One) as a Dementia Caregiver

Need more help but flinch at the word “trust”? Anne gets it. In Episode 270 of Dementia Caregiver Support for Christians she admits, “**One word would make caregiving easier—**trust.” Doctors who push life-at-any-cost, aides who overstep, relatives who second-guess… no wonder she’d rather shoulder everything herself.

Lizette begins with her signature prompt: “Let’s say it’s six months from today and caregiving is easier. What would it take to get there?” Anne’s first need: reliable respite hours through the VA—without forfeiting quality of life for her husband, Mike.

1. Identify the Real Trust Gap Anne doesn’t actually distrust people; she distrusts the system. Lizette reframes: “Doctors can only recommend. You, as health-care power of attorney, direct the care.” That shift turns passive frustration into active stewardship.

2. Put Biblical Authority in Writing Lizette urges Anne to draft clear end-of-life preferences now—feeding tube? CPR? hospital vs. home?—and share them with her nephew (the designated implementer). Proverbs 16 3: “Commit your works to the Lord, and your plans will be established.”

3. Vet Helpers with Therapeutic Truth-Telling™ Before hiring, explain Mike’s routines and your non-negotiables: respect, exercise time, no argumentative “fixing.” Truth upfront prevents boundary breaches later.

4. Build a Vent-Partner List When caregiving frays nerves, you need a safe ears-open friend. Anne finds hers in a respite worker and Lizette’s community calls. Ecclesiastes 4 10: two are better than one.

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