278. How To Avoid The Most Expensive Mistake Dementia Caregivers Make

“The most expensive mistake dementia caregivers make isn’t medical—it’s waiting too long to secure legal and financial footing.” Episode 278 is a straight-talk coaching call with Margie that every Christian caregiver needs to hear.

Lizette begins with her signature prompt to create clarity: “So let’s say it’s six months from today and things are easier in your caregiving journey. What would that look like for you?” Margie’s goal: stop working outside the home and still care well for her husband (early dementia).

From there, the plan is practical, biblical, and doable:

1) Protect assets before capacity is lost

If a loved one can no longer legally sign, options shrink overnight. Meet with an elder care/estate planning attorney now to explore trusts, life estate options, and state-specific tools that safeguard the home, annuities, and savings. Stewardship, not panic.

2) Audit and update documents annually

Confirm you have: Durable Power of Attorney (financial) Health Care Power of Attorney Living Will/Advance Directives

Review yearly so successor agents are still appropriate. God is not a God of confusion—keep your paperwork in order.

3) Plan for 24-hour care (even if it never comes)

“Begin with the end in mind.” If illness progresses, one person cannot safely do it alone. Backward-plan staffing, funding, and respite now. Consider a trusted “financial social worker” or advisor who structures income so the well spouse isn’t impoverished.

4) Use a “directed conversation”

When updating paperwork with your spouse, don’t present 100 options. Narrow to two or three wise choices, then invite a decision. That’s Therapeutic Truth-Telling™ in action—clear, kind, dignity-preserving.

The Think Different Dementia Method™ keeps your care relationship-centered and Scripture-anchored—so you steward two lives: theirs and yours.

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