Cultivate #7: Luke & Katelyn: Who Should Pay on a First Date, The Robots Might Take Over, & Society's Meltdown

In this episode, Luke and I dive into the wild state of our society and how we’re trying to keep our own household sane while the world feels a little… unhinged. We talk about modern dating, shifting gender roles, the impact of feminism, and why everyone seems confused about who’s supposed to do what anymore.

And yes, we go there: Who should pay on the first date? Turns out, it’s not “men always” or “women can.” It’s a little more nuanced...especially if you're not in a trad relationship sitch.

We also unpack how technology is messing with our expectations, why emotional availability actually matters, and what it takes to build real connection in a culture that’s constantly distracting us.

Whether you're single, married, or actively avoiding the dating apps, this episode will make you think, laugh, and maybe rethink a few of your own assumptions.

Little tid bits:

• Modern dating is chaotic, thanks to tech and shifting norms

• Masculinity and femininity are having an identity crisis

• Online dating is both a blessing and a circus

• Emotional availability > perfect profile pictures

• Expectations can make or break your relationships

• Society shapes more of our love lives than we realize

• Choosing a partner intentionally is everything