In this powerful episode of Dishing on Divorce, Mandy Pullen Barr welcomes co-mediators Carolyn Laredo and Jim Bell to explore the transformative impact of co-mediation in divorce. With over 40 years of combined experience, this dynamic duo combines backgrounds in law, psychology, sociology, and education to help couples resolve conflicts, communicate more effectively, and reach durable, respectful agreements.
Carolyn and Jim discuss how having two professionals of different genders and skillsets in the room reduces bias, improves communication, and empowers clients to move from “we” to “I” to identify and voice their personal needs. They share their use of transformative mediation techniques, insights from court-referred and high-conflict cases, and the value of debriefing after sessions to refine their approach continually.
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The use of caucusing for safety or emotional productivity
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How mediation supports long-term co-parenting and minimizes future legal battles
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Real-life examples of clients transforming their communication and mindset during the process
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How their work is fueled by their personal experiences with divorce and single parenthood
The episode highlights how co-mediation promotes empowerment, self-awareness, and lasting resolutions, all while enabling clients to develop the skills necessary to navigate life after divorce, not just the legal separation itself.
Contact Carolyn Laredo, Esq.
Email: Laredo@carolynlaredo.com Website: www.lawmediationny.com
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