Book Review: "Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies"

Karen and Lisa dive into Tara Schuster’s refreshingly raw and hilarious self-help memoir, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies. From bath rituals and morning routines to boundary-setting and reparenting our inner child, this conversation is packed with juicy takeaways for every woman navigating midlife.

Expect reflections on why self-care isn’t selfish, how to stop waiting for others to bring you flowers (literally and metaphorically), and the power of choosing yourself—one permission slip, journal entry, or Trader Joe’s bouquet at a time.

Karen and Lisa share their favorite chapters, how the book mirrors their own journeys, and why creating a sanctuary (even if it means ditching the guest room) is an act of rebellion and radical self-love.

Whether you're healing old wounds, trying to reclaim your time, or just need a reminder that you’re a badass goddess, this episode will leave you inspired, laughing, and maybe ready to buy some damn lilies.

👉 Topics we cover:

• What is reparenting and why it matters in midlife

• Choosing yourself in small but powerful ways

• The myth of being "too busy" for joy

• Creating sacred space in your own home

• The rituals that help us heal, thrive, and reconnect

Grab your favorite drink (hydration counts), hit play, and join us for a conversation that’s equal parts therapy, laughter, and real talk.

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Book: “Buy Yourself the F*cking Lillies” by Tara Schuster

🍸☕ What We Were Drinking:

Straight up H20 🚰

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