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December 8, 2025 59 mins

This week on Drinks With the Girls, Karen and Lisa dive into the viral “We Do Not Care” movement — and let’s just say, it’s giving hot flashes and zero apologies. From twisted bras and visible nipples to ditching people-pleasing and zucchini muffins, they unpack what it really means when midlife women start saying nope, not today. Inspired by Melani Sanders' wildly relatable videos, the conversation gets real about boundaries, identity, and the freedom that comes when estrogen drops and your tolerance for BS goes with it.

This episode is for every woman who’s ever felt guilty for setting a boundary, burned out from trying to do it all, or just plain tired of sucking in her stomach. You’re not alone — and guess what? We do not care.

Includes talk about: • The We Do Not Care Club & its hilarious origins • Why midlife women are DONE with the emotional labor • The connection between menopause and letting go • Real talk on boundaries, bras, and being unbothered • What we’re finally learning to care about instead

Grab your drink, pull up a seat, and welcome to the meeting — no bra required. 🍸

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🍸☕ What We Were Drinking: Plift Tart Lime

Arbonne - Tart Cherry Energy Fizz (Retired), Skin Elixir, GutHealth

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