Left Off the Roster: The Soccer Cut That Changed Everything | F4OT Pod

2 Years ago, my son didn’t make his School soccer team — but what stung the most wasn’t the cut itself, it was the way it was handled. After days of hard work and hope, the message was cold, impersonal, and left him feeling like all that effort didn’t matter. As a parent, watching him process not just the rejection, but the lack of care in how it was delivered, was heartbreaking.

In this episode, I share that experience and why the process of cutting kids from teams matters just as much as the decision itself. We’ll talk about:

🔔 How poor communication makes rejection even harder

🔔 Why kids deserve respect and encouragement, even in disappointment

🔔 The emotional toll on both players and parents

🔔 How coaches and organizations can handle cuts better

To every parent who’s had to console a child not because they didn’t make the team, but because of how it was done — this one’s for you. Cuts will always hurt, but the way they’re handled can either crush a kid’s spirit or help them grow.

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About Fighting For Overtime

In this podcast, we dive deep into the world of youth sports, exploring the highs and lows of young athletes. Join Coach Tony as he uncovers the triumphs and tribulations of young athletes striving for excellence amidst the pressures of competition, parental expectations, and societal demands. This program will offer listeners a personal connection to the challenges and triumphs faced by athletes and parents as they strive for success while grappling with their mental health.