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September 3, 2025 โ€ข 28 mins

In this episode, Brad connects with Tenny Tolafari, a cybersecurity professional turned real estate mogul and co-founder of Xsite Capital. Tenny shares his incredible journey from working 60-hour weeks in corporate America to building and managing a $217 million real estate portfolio. He recounts the full-circle story of a cold call that led to a valuable connection, the challenges of landing their first deal, and the importance of having the right team in place. Tenny also reveals how Xsite Capital navigated the complexities of a $49.1 million transaction and the valuable lessons learned from it.

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๐Ÿ”‘ Key Topics Covered:

  • Tenny's transition from the corporate world to full-time real estate.

  • The "secret sauce" of Xsite Capital's success: putting the right people in the right seats.

  • The persistence required to build relationships with key players in the industry, like brokers.

  • The story of their first deal, a $12.55 million acquisition that turned into a $5.3 million profit in 21 months.

  • The unexpected fire that broke out just two weeks after closing their first property.

  • The biggest challenge in today's market: raising capital for large transactions.

  • Why the real goal isn't just to achieve something, but to become the person capable of achieving it.

  • Xsite Africa's vision of creating a bidirectional investment bridge between Africa and the US.

๐Ÿ’ฌ Memorable Quotes:

  • "Relationship is a key important component... You have to think about this long term." โ€” Tenny Tolafari

  • "That's why we created Exsite [Capital] so that you don't have to worry about the challenge." โ€” Tenny Tolafari

  • "The essence of a goal is not for you to hit the goal, but for you to become the person that's capable of hitting that goal." โ€” Tenny Tolafari

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