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September 24, 2025 20 mins

It's a BRAND NEW Flirtini!

In the last one we talked about multi-dating and in this one, it's how to get a date!

Here's what you can expect:

➡️  Where to meet people:  online vs. in person

➡️  The dating app trick you need so your profile stands out

FREE Dating App Survival Guide

➡️  Meeting people in person (what do looks have to do with it?)

➡️  How to detach from expectations (and thus seeing yourself how you want to be perceived)

➡️  How to handle potential rejection

➡️  How to actually meet people (eh hem, flirt with your life!)

➡️  Where to meet people

➡️  Conversation tips/strategies

➡️  Breaking down two common pieces of dating advice:  "It happens when you least expect it," and "everything happens for a reason"

➡️  Your Flirtini homework and what comes next

 

💗 Happy Flirting! 💗

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About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!

As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage.

Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self.

His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, Men's Health, and Yoga Journal.

You can connect with Benjamin on InstagramTikTok, watch on YouTube, and stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.

 

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