In this episode of For Better or for Court: Family Law in New Jersey, certified matrimonial law attorney Alix Claps of Heymann and Fletcher discusses how custody and parenting time decisions are made in New Jersey family courts. Drawing on her extensive experience, Alix breaks down the legal distinctions between legal custody and parenting time, explains how courts evaluate the best interests of children, and shares practical guidance for parents navigating custody disputes.
Whether parents are married or unmarried, Alix provides insight into common misconceptions, the role of the child’s voice in custody determinations, and the factors that truly matter when crafting parenting time arrangements.
Key Timestamps01:20 – Legal Custody vs. Physical Custody 03:15 – Court Considerations 05:40 – Custody Agreements Outside of Court 07:10 – Parenting Time Arrangements 09:45 – Gender Myths in Custody 11:50 – Requests for Full Custody 13:30 – Impact of Schools and Activities 16:15 – Considering the Child’s Wishes 18:40 – Common Misconceptions 21:00 – Advice for Parents
About the ShowFor Better or For Court: Family Law in New Jersey is a podcast hosted by family law attorney Alix Claps of Heymann & Fletcher. Each episode offers practical legal guidance on divorce, custody, and family law matters in New Jersey. Designed for individuals navigating difficult decisions, the show breaks down complex legal processes into clear, compassionate advice—helping you feel informed, prepared, and supported every step of the way.
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