Grief is the New Normal Podcast: S2E26 Expectations vs. Reality: The Grief No One Talks About

Grieving Unmet Expectations: Navigating Life's Unexpected Turns

In this episode of 'Grief is the New Normal,' Dr. Heather Taylor, a licensed psychologist and grief specialist, addresses the often-overlooked grief of unmet expectations. She delves into the pain of life's deviations from our plans, the societal pressures that exacerbate these feelings, and offers practical advice for coping and moving forward. Dr. Taylor shares personal experiences of her own life pivots and highlights the importance of acknowledging and grieving what never came to be. The episode emphasizes that while grieving non-death losses, it’s essential to mourn the versions of life that didn’t unfold and to write new, honest stories for the future. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their desires and timelines authentically, free from societal pressures.

00:00 Introduction to Grief is the New Normal

00:27 Understanding the Grief of Unmet Expectations

02:07 Personal Story: Heather's Journey Through Grief

05:36 Societal Pressures and Toxic Positivity

07:08 Practical Steps to Navigate Unmet Expectations

09:25 The Impact of Social Media on Grief

10:10 Final Thoughts and Takeaways

12:46 Conclusion and Resources

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Grief is the New Normal is the podcast that refuses to sugarcoat loss—because grief isn’t a problem to fix, it’s a reality to live with. Hosted by Dr. Heather Taylor, a licensed psychologist with over a decade of experience in grief, trauma, and reproductive psychology, this show dives deep into the messy, nonlinear, and very real ways grief impacts our lives.

Whether you're navigating the death of your person, wrestling with the weight of an invisible loss, or trying to figure out who you even are after everything changed—this podcast is here for you. With a mix of solo deep dives, expert interviews, and candid conversations, Dr. Taylor unpacks the emotions no one warns you about, challenges outdated grief narratives, and offers both practical tools and hard-earned wisdom to help you feel less alone.

No toxic positivity. No “fixing” your grief. Just honest talk, validation, and the reminder that you don’t have to do this alone. Because in a world that wants you to move on, Grief is the New Normal is here to help you move through.

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