Have you ever caught yourself putting everyone else’s needs before your own... only to end up tired, resentful, and frustrated? It feels noble in the moment, but there’s a hidden cost. Today I’m sharing a personal story from my own life that shows how playing the martyr role actually hurts everyone involved, including the people we love most.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
🔸 What the martyr complex is and why it’s so destructive
🔸 How unnecessary self-sacrifice leads to resentment, guilt, and disconnection
🔸 The difference between true generosity and giving from obligation
🔸 Why self-care isn’t selfish — it’s essential for healthy relationships
🔸 Practical ways to be authentic and honest about your needs so everyone wins
If you’ve ever struggled with self-care guilt, caregiver burnout, or the feeling that you’re always giving but never refueling, this episode will help you see things in a new light. You’ll walk away with both encouragement and clarity on how to stop playing the martyr, and and start showing up with more energy, patience, and true generosity.
Tune in to learn how to let go of guilt, honor your needs, and give from a place of wellness, not depletion.
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