Identify You | Trauma, Emotional Pain, Shame, Confidence, God’s Plan, Affirmations, Journal Prompts

You don’t build legacy by ignoring your wounds—you build it by healing them.

In this episode, I’m showing you how unhealed emotional pain silently shapes your confidence, decisions, and destiny. We’re flipping the script: instead of hiding your hurt, you’ll learn how to steward it—and walk in the kind of boldness that leaves generational impact.

💛 You’ll learn:

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What if your most painful chapters are the very places God plans to build legacy?

In this raw and redemptive episode, I’m sharing my personal testimony of how trauma became the training ground for purpose. If you’ve ever wondered if your story is too broken for God to use, this episode will shift your entire perspective. Sis, nothing is wasted—not the wounds, not the tears, not the trauma.

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Ever feel like you’re falling behind in purpose or not doing “enough” to leave a legacy? Sis, let me remind you—your legacy is not built in grand gestures. It’s built in daily yeses to God.

In this deeply affirming episode, we’re flipping the pressure of perfection and replacing it with faithful obedience. Because Proverbs 13:22 doesn’t say a perfect person leaves an inheritance—it says a good one does. ...

What if your praise is what breaks the pattern?

In this victory-filled episode, we’re closing out the month with a reminder that gratitude isn’t just about being polite—it’s a prophetic declaration. When you choose to thank God even after trauma, you’re not just healing your heart… you’re healing your lineage.

I’m sharing how God took the very pain that tried to silence me and turned it int...

Sometimes God is silent—not because He’s absent, but because He’s working.

In this tender and timely episode, I’m unpacking what it means to find gratitude in the quiet. When emotional pain lingers and answers don’t come quickly, it’s easy to feel forgotten. But what if the silence is where purpose is being formed?

God’s plan often unfolds behind the scenes, in hidden places, in still momen...

Shame says, “You don’t deserve to be thankful.” But gratitude? It silences that lie.

In this healing episode, I’m diving into how gratitude becomes a weapon when shame tries to steal your joy, your voice, and your confidence. If you’ve been battling emotional pain, silent shame, or self-doubt—even while trying to trust God—this is your moment to reclaim peace.

You’ll learn why gratitude and...

Gratitude doesn’t ignore what broke you—it honors the One who rebuilt you.

In this vulnerable episode, I’m opening up about how trauma became the very soil where trust in God took root. We often think we can only thank God after we’ve healed… but what if gratitude is part of the healing?

If you’ve wrestled with why God allowed certain pain or wondered how to find peace with your past, this ...

You don’t have to figure it all out.

In this gentle yet powerful episode, I’m sharing how trauma taught me to strive—to perform, protect, and make things happen. But God? He invited me into rest. Into trust. Into a deeper confidence that isn’t rooted in my ability, but in His.

If shame, silence, or fear have made you doubt God’s promises, this conversation will help you lay down survival mo...

You prayed for freedom… now it’s time to live it.

In this episode, I’m helping you walk out your freedom with boldness—no more hiding behind masks, shame, or fear of what people might think. You’ve been healed, sis. Now it’s time to show up fully as the woman God created you to be.

We’re talking real confidence, authentic identity, and how to stop shrinking when God is calling you to shine.

You want to be confident. You want to walk boldly in your identity. But the truth is—confidence after trauma doesn’t come easy. Shame lingers. Doubt creeps in. And healing? It takes real work.

In this episode, I’m walking with you through the journey of rebuilding confidence after experiencing trauma and emotional pain. Whether it was childhood wounds, church hurt, abuse, or rejection—this conversation i...

After having an abortion at 14, I carried the shame of that decision like a secret chain. For years, I wondered: Can God really redeem this? Could He still use me?

Maybe you’ve asked yourself similar questions.

In this episode, I’m sharing how the truth of God’s Word broke the lies I believed about shame, trauma, and being “too far gone.” I want to show you that your past doesn’t disqualify...

For years, I said I was healed… but I was still hiding behind shame.

Shame from choices I made, things I never told anyone, and pain I tried to pretend wasn’t there.

In this episode, I’m sharing my journey of carrying silent shame after having an abortion at 14—and how the love of Jesus gave me the power to finally break free.

If you’ve ever thought:

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Have you ever prayed… and heard nothing? Like you’re showing up, staying faithful, doing the work—and Heaven is just quiet?

This episode is for the woman who’s walking through the wilderness—where things feel dry, direction feels unclear, and God’s voice feels distant. I know what it’s like to crave a word from the Lord and wonder, “God, did I miss You? Are You still with me?”

But what I’ve...

Whew...this one is personal. I know what it’s like to stay in relationships longer than I should have, hoping they’d change, thinking if I prayed harder, loved better, or kept quiet, maybe it would get better. But wisdom doesn’t always say “stay and fight”—sometimes, wisdom says walk away.

In this episode, I’m sharing what God taught me about releasing relationships that were hurting more than healing. W...

I used to believe that if I could just manage everything perfectly: my emotions, my kids, my goals, then healing would come. But God had to show me: healing doesn’t flow from control, it flows from surrender.

In this episode, I’m getting real about the exhausting cycle of trying to fix what only God can restore. We’ll talk about the kind of wisdom it takes to loosen your grip and truly trust Him even whe...

Have you ever wondered why your confidence feels shaky—even though you love God, read your Bible, and pray? In this episode, I’m getting real about the hidden battles Christian women face when it comes to self-worth and identity.

I’ll share how trauma, comparison, and performance pressure can quietly chip away at your confidence—and how I’ve personally had to confront those lies in my own life.

Have you ever felt like your past mistakes disqualified you from being used by God? Like no matter how much you try, shame keeps whispering that you’re not enough, not worthy, not lovable? In this episode, I’m sharing a part of my story I once thought I’d never speak out loud—my abortion at 14—and how God met me in the middle of that shame and said, “Shakera, speak.”

We’re diving deep into how shame dist...

Are you afraid that slowing down means falling behind? Are you exhausted from doing all the things—yet still feeling empty, burned out, and unsure of your purpose?

In this episode, I’m sharing why slowing down is not a setback, but a setup. Discover how dialing back actually strengthens your confidence in Christ, deepens your healing journey, and brings fresh clarity in your purpose.

Dialing back is not a setback—it’s God’s strateg...