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February 20, 2025 57 mins

Sexologist Alexa Andre (⁠@sexwithalexa⁠) sits down with ⁠Amy Baldwin⁠—sex educator, co-host of the ⁠Shameless Sex Podcast⁠, and author—to talk about everything from learning to enjoy receiving to becoming amazing at oral and navigating non-monogamy.

Amy shares what it was like growing up with a sex-positive mom, opening a sex shop with her, and not having her first orgasm until 18—plus how she only started having really good sex in her 30s.

We also go deep into her journey in non-monogamy, how she and her partner opened up their relationship, and how their rules vs. agreements evolved over time.

We cover:

🔹 Growing up sex-positive & running a sex shop with her mom

🔹 Why it took so long to start having good sex (and what changed!)

🔹 Her journey into non-monogamy and what she’s learned along the way

🔹 Her top blowjob tips for mind-blowing oral

🔹 Why so many people struggle with receiving pleasure & how to get better at it

🔹 The sex myths we wish we’d unlearned so much sooner

If you want to get better at giving and receiving pleasure, understand non-monogamy from someone who's lived it, and break free from old sexual conditioning, this episode is a must-listen!

Check out the ⁠Shameless Sex Tour ⁠happening in Austin, Dallas and Santa Cruz!


A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here.

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