In this episode, I interviewed Mercedez, who's mission is to create a safe space for massage that's accessible in all the ways she can make it: compassionate, understanding, trauma informed, consent based, queer, and all gender friendly, body positive, and disability friendly.
Mercedez aims to to make receiving bodywork a priority and not a privilege as a woman of color, a person who has experienced trauma, body shaming and queer phobia herself.
We talked about:
- her journey as a massage therapist
- how she makes her work accessible
- how body work can help heal trauma
- fat liberation
- the importance of care work through all of life seasons, from birth, post-partum, child care, elder care, and end of life care
You can connect with Mercedez at:
https://www.massagebymercedez.com/
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Intro/Outro Music - Feel the Earth by Maya Tokunaga:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gO7vTAbpbG4&feature=youtu.be
Thanks to Mara Lazer for help with editing/producing!
00:00:00 Opening & Intro
00:04:00 How Mercedez got into massage therapy
00:05:00 What Mercedez has learned through her journey as a body worker
00:06:00 How Mercedez tries to make her bodywork sessions accessible to all genders, bodies, and abilities?
00:09:30 Healing through giving and receiving body work
00:12:40 What healing has looked like for Mercedez
00:14:00 Mercedez’s experiences in fat liberation activism
00:17:50 Care work with all ages, from birth to end of life
00:22:00 Mercedez’s experience with end of life care for her Grandma
00:28:00 Mercedez’s story from childhood growing up with fat positive family experiences, then facing fat phobia in school
00:31:00 Exploring questions of gender identity and sexuality as a young queer child and coming into more comfort in her body in a young adulthood through the support of community
00:33:00 How body work can change your experience in your body, even feet!
00:34:00 How grief can change how you feel in your body
00:37:00 Feeling in awe of what the body can do despite injuries and changing abilities
00:38:00 Feeling pleasure in your body through community, getting your heart rate up, eating, being in water, decadent baths
00:43:00 How to connect with Mercedez to book or sponsor a massage
00:45:00 Closing
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