This Communication Book Changed How We Fight

What if we told you there's a "right" way to have conversations? Ana-Marija dove deep into Jefferson Fisher's "The Next Conversation" after dealing with a difficult person at work, taking copious notes and using it like a script. But the book also triggered her anxiety about communicating "perfectly." We break down Fisher's key concepts: building confidence, framing conversations, and the power of the pause. Then we put it to the ultimate test by role-playing one of our actual relationship conflicts (spoiler: Ana-Marija needs a booster seat, and that explains a LOT). Featuring special guest appearances from our dog Ren in his anti-cat-poop hood.

Key Takeaways:

• Confidence can be practiced through small language changes (stop saying "just" and "maybe")
• Framing conversations gives direction instead of emotional word-vomit
• The power of the pause: breathe, scan, have a quick pep talk with yourself
• You can't control how others receive your words, only how you show up
• Sometimes communication problems have simple solutions (like booster seats for short people)
• Grace for yourself and others beats perfect technique every time

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