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December 12, 2024 59 mins

We are all raised to think, act, and believe a certain way. What if you realize how you were raised does not fit who you are? Would you continue to pretend to be someone you’re not, or would you find a way to be authentically you? In this episode, I speak with a kind and accepting human who broke free from the rules of others and built a life of freedom and safety while helping others feel the same. Join myself and Krisa Gonna L’Whor as we explore freedom, building insight into our authentic selves, and the strength it takes to be that person, even when the world is telling you not to be. 

 

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Watch Krisa’s Ted Talk here: https://youtu.be/c28KESnrzEo?si=mEqOku9qoBac1Ppy

Watch Krisa’s animated movie: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NhWfVF0nP4I

What you can expect from this episode: 

2:00 Introductions 

3:30 Rules we are taught as children to survive 

5:50 Making sense of the world

12:30 Unspoken moments of safety

16:35 Building and understanding who you are, away from rules

 22:08 Authenticity

26:50 Changing the rules and trusting it will get better

35:00 What helps you feel safe?

44:50 Dream big, but know our reality

50:22 A message for our allies: be a safe person (especially during holidays)

56:00 Finding small spaces where you feel safe and build from there

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