Day 2: Thanksgiving Without Her — Grief, Gratitude, and Staying Present

In Day 2 of Journal of an Ordinary Man, I reflect on our first Thanksgiving without my mother-in-law—the woman whose presence once anchored the entire family. I walk through the emotions of the day: the quiet sadness, the unexpected laughter, and the way family and friends came together to create something that still felt warm and whole.

From watching the Macy’s parade and cooking together, to football and shared stories, this episode explores what it means to hold grief and gratitude in the same space. I talk about the moments of remembrance, the limoncello toast in her honor, and the foggy morning after—physically and emotionally.

I also share a moment of intentional connection with my sister, setting up a monthly lunch to strengthen our relationship. A small step, but one that brought real joy.

The spiritual reflection centers on Proverbs 3:5–6, looking at what it means to trust God enough to let Him straighten our paths during seasons of transition.

If you’re navigating a holiday after loss, midlife changes, family adjustments, or mixed emotions, this episode offers an honest, grounded look at love, memory, and choosing to be present with the people who matter most.