Single, No Kids, & Pays All The Bills Equals A High Value Man

Welcome back to the Let Him See That Child podcast, where we continue our family court series with an intense discussion on parenting boundaries and family dynamics.

In this episode, tensions rise as a mother confronts her child's father and his new partner about disciplining her daughter. The conversation delves into the complexities of co-parenting, respect, and the challenges of blended families.

Listeners are taken through a heated exchange that highlights the importance of communication, mutual respect, and the different approaches to parenting in a modern society. Tune in for an eye-opening discussion that many families can relate to.

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Christian Taylor
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Music.

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That's just something I don't condone. And I told him that I don't want nobody
putting their hands on my daughter but me because I'm the mother.
So what makes you feel like you could do that?
I understand. First off, it was something mutual between me and the father because
your daughter was being disrespectful.
Okay. Here's my thing. My daughter's not disrespectful. And even if she was
disrespectful, I told him to not let nobody, no bitch, excuse me,

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but really not excuse me to put their hands on my daughter.
Okay. At the end of the day, your daughter's not disrespectful to you because
you're her mother. and I guess the ways that she's running, you're teaching her how ever.
Look, look. There gotta be something that you said to her for her to even feel... Okay, okay.
Well, I'm gonna say this. We can't talk together. We can see each other,
but we can't talk together.

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Okay, so why you let her put her hands on our daughter? Because you know...
What you mean what I'm doing here? I'm checking your wife because she feel like
she got authority to put her hands on my daughter.
Let's stop it right there because first off, she was being disrespectful.
How was she being disrespectful?
I gave her permission. Why didn't... No, no, why didn't you... discipline
her i'm not talking to you right now why don't you discipline her
because you're the damn daddy because i wasn't here okay well

(15:52):
next time call me or something because i
don't condone that you need to speak to me i'm the one that birthed her
because this is my daughter this is but if but
look if he's not here to discipline her because you
don't answer the phone he don't answer
the phone and this is what i have to do to get
through to y'all if i gotta pull up and add the fool to get through to y'all because

(16:12):
y'all want to touch my child this is what i'm gonna do it's my okay but
if you are here in the vicinity come in my house trying to
act a fool you weren't here
so if you were not here then how you gonna punish her how you gonna do that
so that's not her right to do it i gave her
the initiative though and she's under my okay i'm not saying she should not

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listen but let me tell you something this is my daughter i don't want you touching
her that's point blank period and it's back to me okay well why are you not
being a daddy and checking her then and making sure that she She's respecting her.
Because you just told me that you weren't here when it happened.
So if you're not here when it happened.
She told me that daddy's new girlfriend cut his heel. That's what she told me.

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Okay, look. I swear to God, you know how I get.
And I'm already up here. It don't matter. This is my daughter.
Though. This is my daughter. And I ain't even got a car.
We can definitely go there. But I'm with you. that time what what's
in the way under my roof she's gonna get punished i'm
not okay look i'm not saying she can't be punished but she does not
have to put her hands on my daughter call me and i will handle it

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or either she's trying to be more respectful because she don't do that with me so
that that says so where's so that says obviously you obviously you okay but
it's who's disrespecting y'all and what's this does that make exactly and she
doesn't disrespect me she disrespects y'all so that says something about y'all's
parents baby look i'm gonna tell I'm not trying to come here with that shit. I'm really not.

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But you need to calm all that down. This ain't your child though. But it's not your child.
And all that shit that you with, I'm with it, Tom 10. I'm with it,
Tom 10. I'm with it, Tom 10. So calm that down.
I will call you. And make sure you answer the phone. Make sure you answer the phone. You got it.
So I'm here. You can send it to me. Like I said, don't touch my child no more,

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okay? That's all I'm going to say.
And y'all can have a wonderful day. Have a wonderful rainy day.
And how about your narrow ass answer the phone when I call next time?
And I said what I said. Yeah, all right. All right. Yeah. Yeah.
I seen that with a lot of the the box the other.

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Or the quote unquote stepmother now. As a mother, I probably wouldn't appreciate,
you putting your hands on my child.
Also though, I don't know how old this child is.
And I would like to know that if the dad is gonna be leaving this child unattended
with this woman, that she's mature enough and she knows how to parent.
You're leaving her in a parental role.

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Then it encompasses everything that it comes with. And you know what,
where people don't... I used to get my ass whooped by neighbors.
All that shit. Me too. My neighbors beat my ass down the street, up the street.
The teacher, everything. Teacher, hello.
And we living in a different society now. I know when I was growing up, it took a village.
And that's what that means. You don't... And the problem is,

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that's why everybody's so hands off, because...

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Likely to go to jail. It makes him nine times more likely to drop out of school.
It makes him a lot more likely to do other things that I wouldn't approve of.
And that's where the regret comes in. But as far as me standing up for myself
and saying, this is what I want for me, that's what I told. If I could choose
differently, I would choose.
And y'all, that's why I say she's the absolute best. She put the wrong,

(28:46):
wrong panelists up here to argue with.
Cause I always I always reach out to call her. She's the best.
She's great at what she does. I love her for that.

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I see that. My pastor, let me give a shout out to my pastor.
Pastor Ross, with our men's ministry, it's called the Sanctuary of Men.
On Mondays, we meet at the tavern, the blood cigars from 6 to 8 p.m.
We encourage all brothers to come up there.
Pastor Ross, he pray for us. We do a little lecture.
We do a little mini, little Bible study. And it helped me further my relationship with God.

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And he always used that term, high-value women, high-value men.
I don't believe in high-value terms. I believe that people are people.
And the thing about that is, I just love who love me. You know what I'm saying?
That's all right. That's okay right there.
I guess it goes down to what the big...