Listen Up, Younger Self! | Relationships, love, marriage, romance, intimacy

In this transformative episode, host Heather Solomon opens up about her past addiction to negativity and offers eye-opening insights into how it affects various aspects of life, from marriage to parenting. Heather shares her personal journey of recognizing and overcoming the subtle yet pervasive negativity that was once a part of her identity. Through candid discussions, she reveals how negativity acts as a barrier to intimacy, cre...

In this heartfelt episode, Heather Solomon explores the beauty of life's chaos and the empowering journey of growth it brings. Join her as she reflects on the fulfilling moments with her adult children, the challenges faced along the way, and the importance of embracing the so-called 'messy middleground' of life. Discover valuable insights on choosing self-awareness, understanding the significance of modeling behavior to raise empo...

In this eye-opening episode of "Listen Up, Younger Self," Heather Solomon dives deep into the detrimental habit of needing to be right and how it impacts relationships, especially in marriage and parenting. Explore why we often feel this urge, how it harms our connections, and the practical steps we can take to choose connection over control. With real-life examples and practical wisdom, discover how embracing happiness over self-r...

In this episode of "Listen Up, Younger Self," Heather Solomon breaks down the concept of the emotional bank account in relationships. She explains how simple daily actions can either deposit or withdraw from this account, affecting the health and longevity of your marriage. Discover how to recognize the signs of being in the red and learn the steps to rebuild emotional trust with your partner. Heather also emphasizes the importance...

In this engaging episode of 'Listen Up Younger Self,' host Heather Solomon delves into the complexities of modern marriage dynamics, exploring how relationships often tread the thin line between partnership and parental roles. She offers insightful commentary on the importance of recognizing and shifting from a parent-child dynamic to one of mutual respect and romance.

With warmth and humor, Heather challenges listeners to examine ...

In this revealing episode of "Listen Up, Younger Self," Heather Solomon courageously addresses the often-avoided topic of intimacy and sex in marriage. Are you familiar with the evolution from passionate kisses to high-fives in a parking lot? Discover why physical connection fades and what underlying factors contribute to emotional drift, a common yet unspoken dilemma in relationships.

Join Heather as she explores the science and e...

Welcome back to another enlightening episode of Listen Up, Younger Self with your host, Heather Solomon. Join us as we dive into the all-too-familiar realm of losing our cool in the heat of the moment, only to spend hours dwelling on what could have been done differently. In this episode, Heather candidly shares personal stories and struggles while offering insights on how to take control of our reactions and master the art of the ...

In this episode of "Listen Up, Younger Self," host Heather Solomon welcomes one of America's top midlife dating coaches, Jonathan Aslay, who shares his profound insights into the dynamics of modern relationships. With over 200,000 YouTube subscribers, Jonathan offers a no-nonsense perspective on emotional maturity, casual relationships, and the evolving landscape of dating.

Heather and Jonathan delve into the significant changes in...

In this heartfelt episode of Listen Up, Younger Self, host Heather Solomon opens up as the first guest on a new marriage podcast. Heather dives into candid stories and valuable lessons learned from her 30-year journey in marriage and parenting. She discusses the common pitfalls that can slowly erode a connection between partners and shares practical tips on how to overcome them without resorting to dramatic fixes.

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In this episode of Listen Up, Younger Self, host Heather Solomon delves into the dynamics of marriage communication, exploring how seemingly insignificant words can damage the foundation of a relationship. Heather identifies ten phrases that can sabotage a marriage, offering insights into why these words harm and how they can be avoided. With a blend of humor and wisdom, she shares strategies for transforming conflict into opportun...

Join Heather Solomon in this transformative episode of Listen Up, Younger Self, as she expertly navigates the treacherous waters of self-talk. Reflecting on her own experiences with body image and self-criticism, Heather discusses the deeply ingrained habits we develop, often leading to toxic self-perception and its ripple effects on our relationships, parenting, and self-worth.

Discover why we default to negative self-talk, how it...

Join Heather Solomon on Listen Up, Younger Self as she sits down with Cristie Cerniglia, a seasoned relationship coach and happily married wife for 30 years. This episode dives deep into the challenges of marriage, with Cristie sharing her journey of overcoming resentment and discovering the power of going first in rebuilding romance. Discover practical wisdom on self-care, releasing control, and the importance of gratitude to tran...

This episode takes you on a journey as Heather Solomon switches roles and becomes the guest on the Life Stories podcast with Shara Goswick. Discover what inspired Heather to create her podcast "Listen Up Younger Self," where she discusses meeting life's challenges with happiness and healing. Learn what it means to step into your power, even when you're beyond your 20s, with a dash of accidental wisdom, humorous word vomit, and a bi...

Join Heather Solomon in this eye-opening episode of Listen Up, Younger Self as she delves into the toxic brew of resentment in marriage. Discover how unspoken grievances and resentments silently damage relationships and impact your children. Heather uses humor and candor to explore the differences between resentments and grudges, offering insights into why we cling to anger and how it sabotages both partners.

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In this episode of "Listen Up, Younger Self," host Heather Solomon delves into the complex world of jealousy. Often considered the "ugly little green eyed monster," jealousy is an emotion wired into our very essence, originating from our caveman ancestors and their survival instincts. However, in today's world, unchecked jealousy can wreak havoc on relationships, whether romantic, friendly, or professional.

Heather explores how jea...

Ever felt like you're on a treadmill of old habits and beliefs? This episode of Listen Up Younger Self with Heather Solomon is your wake-up call. Featuring Elizabeth Eleanor, an accomplished energy healer and creator of the Ascendance Code, this conversation dives into the art of breaking free from outdated patterns to consciously create the life and love you truly desire. Elizabeth shares her journey—from witnessing shooting stars...

Join Heather Solomon on ‘Listen Up, Younger Self’ as she explores the dynamics of modern relationships through a marriage-themed road trip metaphor. In this episode, Heather presents a marriage tune-up quiz, encouraging couples to assess their relationship's current state, whether they're cruising happily, coasting in neutral, or stuck on the side of the road. Through insightful questions and practical tips, she guides listeners on...

In this episode of Listen Up Younger Self, host Heather Solomon delves into the complex language of love, emphasizing why both words and actions are essential in expressing affection. Through personal anecdotes and insightful guidance, she explores how different upbringings can influence our understanding of love and why relying solely on words or actions can lead to miscommunication.

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Join Heather Solomon, the host of Listen Up Younger Self, as she shares her powerful journey of self-discovery and transformation. In this engaging episode, recorded live with AJ on the KJ Masterclass, Heather dives into the vital theme of rewriting your story. She emphasizes the importance of breaking free from old patterns and choosing happiness over being right. Heather passionately discusses overcoming limiting beliefs and the ...