nothing is exactly as it seems, nor is it otherwise.
In this episode of LláMame Anything, I share why I chose to defer my PhD for a year—not as a setback, but as a strategy. From protecting my mental health, to expanding professional opportunities in Miami, to negotiating funding and exploring programs that actually fit my vision, I explain why timing matters more than titles.
This is a survival guide for anyone who feels pressured to rush into milestones just to keep up. I’ll take you inside my process of applying to new programs, negotiating with institutions, and reframing a “delay” as an investment in alignment.
Because success isn’t about moving the fastest—it’s about moving with intention. And whether you’re pursuing academia, entrepreneurship, or just trying to figure out your next step, I want my nieces, nephews (and you) to know: you’re allowed to take the long game.
🎧 Tune in for real talk on ambition, alignment, and why delaying the dream might actually bring you closer to it.
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