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July 31, 2025 32 mins

Have you ever felt like your past experiences were silently shaping your present, influencing your relationships and parenting in ways you couldn't quite grasp? For many of us, trauma casts a long shadow, making the journey through motherhood feel like navigating a minefield of triggers and self-doubt.

In this raw and revealing episode, I sit down with Jasmina Sabi, a woman whose life has been profoundly shaped by trauma - from her multicultural upbringing to the heartbreak of abandonment during pregnancy. Through her story, we explore the hidden ways our brains respond to trauma and how understanding these mechanisms can be the key to healing.

Unraveling the Threads of Generational Trauma

Jasmina shares her journey of self-discovery, from feeling trapped by her past to pursuing education as a means of understanding her own behavior. You'll gain insight into:

  • The surprising ways trauma can manifest in our lives, even when we don't recognize it
  • How cultural differences and early experiences shape our perception of "normal" relationships
  • The importance of understanding your brain's response to trauma for true healing
Breaking the Cycle: From Victim to Empowered Mother

Through vulnerability and hard-won wisdom, Jasmina offers a new perspective on motherhood after trauma. She challenges conventional wisdom, encouraging us to:

  • Embrace honesty with our children about our own struggles and uncertainties
  • Recognize the impact of our past on our parenting style and make conscious choices
  • Find healthy ways to nurture ourselves, even when it goes against societal expectations
Practical Steps for Healing and Growth

This conversation isn't just about understanding trauma - it's about taking action. Jasmina shares practical strategies for:

  • Identifying your "instant gratification" triggers and how they impact your behavior
  • Creating a personal happiness toolkit that doesn't rely on others
  • Using self-awareness to regain control over your brain's automatic responses
A Call to Radical Self-Acceptance

Perhaps most powerfully, Jasmina challenges us to embrace every part of our story - even the messy, uncomfortable bits. She reminds us that true healing comes not from erasing our past, but from understanding it and choosing a new path forward.

Are you ready to explore the hidden influences shaping your motherhood journey? To challenge societal expectations and find a path to healing that's uniquely yours? This conversation offers a compassionate guide for every mama seeking to break free from the grip of past trauma and create a more peaceful, joyful experience of motherhood.

Your journey to understanding and healing starts here. Listen now and take the first step towards becoming the mother you've always wanted to be – for yourself and your children. Connect with Jasmina: https://a.co/d/54bqcmc 

🎁 Start finding peace today! Get my free guide, Unlocking Peace, and discover practical steps to calm your triggers and nurture joy in your motherhood journey. 👉 Download now: https://mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/guide

 

Grab your copy of Emily's new release, "Breaking Free: Parenting in the Midst of Trauma Recovery" today! https://books.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/breakingfree   Want to be a guest on Mamahood After Trauma? Send Emily Cleghorn a message on PodMatch, here:  https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc 
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