Man Within Podcast

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam dives into the myths surrounding recovery from pornography addiction, specifically addressing the differences between edging and slipping. He emphasizes the importance of focusing on root causes rather than getting caught up in minor behaviors. Sathiya also discusses the concept of gooning and how it relates to recovery, encouraging listeners to celebrate small victories in the...

In this episode, Sathiya discusses the first 100 days of quitting pornography, outlining the emotional and psychological phases individuals typically experience. He emphasizes the importance of understanding what to expect during this journey, including the highs and lows of recovery, the necessity of building momentum, and the critical role of community support. Sathiya shares insights from his experience helping others quit porn,...

In this engaging conversation, Shawn Bonneteau reflects on his two-year journey as a lead coach at Deep Clean, discussing the profound impact of coaching, community, and personal growth. He shares insights on cultural adaptation while living in the Czech Republic, the challenges of learning a new language, and the importance of inner child work in healing. The discussion also delves into the dynamics of parenting, the significance ...

In this conversation, Sathiya explores the profound question of life's purpose, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's calling, skills, and passions. He introduces a framework consisting of three macronutrients—calling, skills, and passions—that must converge to achieve true fulfillment. Sathiya also discusses common scenarios where individuals may find themselves in 'handcuffs'—golden, silver, or copper—indicating a lac...

In this episode, Sathiya explores the theological perspective on online pornography, emphasizing the importance of sexual morality defined as consensual sexual activity between a husband and wife. He discusses the concepts of intimacy and commitment, explaining how they relate to sexual behavior and the implications of pornography on relationships. Sathiya encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships and the significa...

In this episode, Sathiya discusses the challenges faced when trying to quit pornography, emphasizing that struggles often intensify after making the decision to quit. He explores the psychological and spiritual aspects of this journey, encouraging listeners to persevere through difficulties and highlighting the importance of community support and accountability. The message is clear: if you don't quit, you win, and the journey, tho...

This conversation explores the complexities of addiction treatment through the perspectives of two professionals, Heather and Josh, who share their personal journeys and insights into the stigma, politics, and treatment approaches surrounding addiction. They discuss the importance of understanding the underlying causes of addiction, the role of choice, and the need for comprehensive education and support systems to effectively addr...

In this conversation, Sathiya explores the profound effects of pornography on the brain, detailing how it alters brain function and behavior. He discusses the neuroscience behind addiction, including decreased stress response, reduced prefrontal cortex activity, sensitization, and desensitization. Sathiya emphasizes the importance of understanding these effects to facilitate recovery and offers strategies for rewiring the brain, in...

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya addresses a listener's question about overcoming insecurities, particularly the fear of not being in control and the desire for security. He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability in healing and suggests focusing on one core issue at a time. Sathiya shares personal anecdotes and insights on building self-security through confronting challenges and the significance of inner chil...

In this conversation, Sathiya discusses the four indicative features of problematic pornography use: tolerance, pornographic binges, tab jumping, and edging behaviors. He explains how these behaviors manifest and their implications for individuals struggling with pornography addiction. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing these signs and taking proactive steps towards recovery.

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In this conversation, Sathiya and Christine delve into the challenges faced by high-performing individuals in their marriages, particularly the phenomenon known as 'roommate syndrome.' They explore the tension between career success and marital intimacy, emphasizing the importance of intentionality and clarity in relationships. The discussion highlights the purpose of marriage beyond companionship, advocating for a proactive approa...

In this conversation, Sathiya discusses the challenging yet crucial topic of confessing a porn addiction to a partner. He emphasizes the importance of honesty and the potential consequences of secrecy. The discussion outlines the process of disclosure, highlighting that it should be an ongoing conversation rather than a one-time event. Sathiya provides practical advice on how to approach the conversation, including being direct, al...

In this episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the concept of quitting and how the manner in which one quits can influence their recovery journey. He emphasizes the difference between a cold turkey approach and a gradual change, highlighting that those who quit hard often experience harder relapses. The conversation explores the importance of understanding slips in recovery and how a more gradual approach can lead to easier recoveries. Sat...

In this episode, Sathiya discusses the interplay between the left and right brain in the context of pornography recovery. He emphasizes the importance of understanding both logical and emotional aspects of decision-making, particularly in relation to addiction and recovery.

The conversation highlights the need for solutions that address deeper emotional needs rather than just logical fixes, advocating for a more holistic approach t...

In this conversation, Jonah discusses the evolution of their role as a Bible teacher and influencer on social media, particularly TikTok. He shares his journey from traditional teaching to engaging with a digital audience, emphasizing the importance of addressing the challenges faced by Gen Z, including loneliness and mental health issues. Jonah advocates for the church's involvement in social media to provide guidance and support,...

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam wraps up the Integrity Secrets series with a focus on the concept of imperfect action. He emphasizes the importance of taking action, even if it's not perfect, to avoid the pitfalls of procrastination and perfectionism. Sathiya shares insights on fatherhood, the impact fathers have on their children, and encourages listeners to pursue recovery and integrity in their lives. He a...

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya discusses the importance of inner child work as a means of emotional healing and trauma recovery. He outlines a four-step process for healing the inner child, emphasizing the significance of locating, learning about, leading, and inviting Jesus into the healing process. The conversation also highlights the importance of tracking progress in personal development and the resources av...

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya discusses the importance of investing in relationships as a key to integrity and recovery. He emphasizes that all resources, including money and time, should be viewed as investments rather than expenditures. The conversation highlights the necessity of having supportive relationships, including a spotter, a guide, and a community, to aid in personal growth and healing from trauma ...

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya delves into the concept of intimacy as a core issue in struggles with pornography and sexual misbehavior. He emphasizes that these issues are not merely behavioral but stem from deeper intimacy disorders. Sathiya discusses the importance of emotional connection, self-awareness, and community support in overcoming these challenges. He introduces the Deep Clean Inner Circle program, ...