The Same Old Story

The Power of the Pause: How Mental Fitness Transforms Emotional Reactions into Empowered Responses

In this powerful episode, Patricia dives deep into the stories that live in our minds, the ones that hold us back, trigger our emotional reactions, and influence how we show up in the world. From understanding the difference between emotional reactions and responses, to learning how mental fitness and positive intelligence can help us navigate life’s inevitable curveballs, this conversation offers real, transformative insights.

You’ll learn how outdated beliefs from our past shape our present behaviours, and how coaching, especially when rooted in the work of thought leaders like Timothy Gallwey and Shirzad Chamine, can support deep personal growth.

The heart of this episode is all about The Power of the Pause: in what Viktor Frankl called the space between stimulus and response, where true growth, empowerment, and healing begin.

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What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

💡 How old internal stories and belief systems drive our emotional reactions

💡 The difference between feelings and emotions, and why it matters

💡 Why mental fitness is a trainable skill, just like physical fitness

💡 The role of saboteurs in self-sabotage and how to shift into your inner Sage

💡 The neuroscience behind emotional triggers and how to rewire your brain

💡 Why your triggers are actually powerful messengers for healing

💡 How the “Power of the Pause” is a revolutionary tool for reclaiming self-care, self-love and conscious choice

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Key Takeaways:

1. Mental Fitness is Trainable – You can build emotional strength and resilience just like a muscle, and begin shifting out of reactivity through practices rooted in awareness.
2. Triggers are Teachers – Emotional triggers are not your enemy, they’re signposts to healing. They help you meet and soothe the younger version of you that still seeks love and validation.
3. Self-Love is the most stable Foundation; Living from self-respect, self-trust, and inner worth is a revolutionary act that rewrites your inner story and transforms how you face life’s challenges.

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Featured Concepts & Mentions:

• The Inner Game of Tennis by Timothy Gallwey
• Positive Intelligence founded by Shirzad Chamine
• Quote from Epictetus: “It’s not what happens to you but how you react to it that matters.”
• Viktor Frankl: “Between stimulus and response there is a space…”
• Emotional overthinking saboteurs vs. the intuitive Sage
• Self-command and rewiring habitual thought patterns
• Healing childhood self and self-compassion work
• Yasmina Floyer, Writer, https://www.instagram.com/yasfloyer/
• Episode reference: Ep. 16 – Blind Men and the Elephant

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Quotes Worth Remembering:

“You can turn your triggers into glimmers that glow with learnings and hope for a happier future.”

“You are not your triggers. They are messengers, your greatest teachers toward self-awareness.”

“When you pause, you create a sacred space within. In that space, you reclaim your power. THAT is a revolutionary act.”

 

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