Modern Marriage with Monica
A couple of years ago, when I went searching for specific tips, tools and tricks to help me level up my marriage. I read books, I searched the internet, I watch YouTube...But the information I found was...shall I say...lacking! The information also was not particularly relevant to the unique challenges of today’s modern marriages with both people juggling the pressures of working outside the home, living up to societal pressures of those ”perfect” homes, bodies, and all other kinds of expectations that comes from social media. And speaking of social media, what about all the ”temptations”, instant access and just overall problems that come along with it. What was out there tended to be fluffy statements like ”be more loving” or ”communicate more”, or the God-awful advice of ”Never go to bed angry”-like anybody can solve anything when they are exhausted... No wonder the divorce rate is where it’s at! I’m the kind of person who needs specifics. Tell me exactly what to do! but there was nothing out there, so I created my own tips, tools and tricks. But the question I’m sure you are all wondering is...Did it work? And to that, I would say. YES! Not only did my techniques work... they also worked fast! Now I am taking my journey, those lessons, and am here to help marriages and relationships, not only survive, but to thrive. If you are married, ever wanted to be, or just want the absolutely best relationship possible. This is the podcast for you!
Episodes
In this inspiring episode, we sit down with Ben Black, father of four and founder of Dynasty Foundry, to discuss his mission to empower men to build lasting wealth—not just for today, but for generations to come. Ben shares his journey from a self-focused mindset to embracing the responsibility of creating a legacy for his children, emphasizing the importance of human, intellectual, social, and financial capital in establishing a s...
In this eye-opening video, we dive into 5 compelling reasons why men are made to lead in marriage, blending logic, biology, and faith for a balanced perspective. Whether you're looking to strengthen your relationship or understand traditional roles better, this discussion equips men to step up as the leaders their wives truly desire.
Key highlights:
Reason 1: Emotional vs. Logical Decision-Making – Explore how women's biology...
In this thought-provoking video, we explore a real-life dilemma faced by a couple struggling to align on a critical decision: whether to expand their family further. Based on a conversation with a woman on X, we unpack a situation where her husband made a unilateral decision to get a vasectomy behind her back, leading to feelings of deep betrayal. Initially, the couple had agreed on having three children, but as the wife’s religiou...
Discover the secrets behind how women subconsciously assess a man's masculinity and how you can rank higher in their eyes to boost attraction. In this in-depth video, we break down the key factors that women prioritize when evaluating men, from the critical importance of personal hygiene to the impact of facial features, grooming habits, and body composition. Learn why your scent is the number one dealbreaker, how a strong jawline ...
In this thought-provoking video, we explore the hidden reasons why modern marriages are struggling, both in the bedroom and beyond. The core issue? For women ages 20-49 it's most likely due from the overwhelming mental load that women carry while trying to "have it all."
From balancing demanding careers and motherhood to maintaining relationships and navigating societal pressures, women are stretched thin, leading to stress, hi...
Struggling with a sexless marriage? In this video, we tackle the difficult but crucial conversation about addressing a lack of intimacy in relationships. Talking about the "birds and the bees" with kids is awkward, but discussing intimacy issues with your spouse can be even harder. With 25-50% of marriages facing low libido or sexless challenges, this is a common relationship problem that demands attention. Learn why a lack of sexu...
Join us for an in-depth and inspiring conversation with Laura How, a renowned UK-based relationship counselor and coach, and the creator of the YouTube channel @LauraHow.
In this episode, we explore the complexities of building and sustaining a thriving marriage in today’s world. Laura shares her personal journey, from overcoming a challenging upbringing shaped by her parents’ dysfunctional marriage to becoming a passionate advo...
Explore the seven critical reasons behind a husband's lack of interest in intimacy in this comprehensive video guide. Building on Part 1, where we discussed low testosterone, changes in a wife’s appearance, and chronic disrespect, this video delves into the final four reasons that can strain marital intimacy. We provide detailed insights into emotional, psychological, and external factors affecting your relationship, offering actio...
In this eye-opening episode, we dive into a question that’s more common than you think: Why does my husband have a low libido? While this issue is often discussed from a male perspective, many women face the challenge of a sexless marriage due to their husband’s lack of desire. With 25-50% of marriages classified as sexless (Psychology Today) and 10-20% of those cases involving a husband’s low libido, this is a critical topic for ...
Are you struggling to understand why your wife’s interest in intimacy has waned? In this video, we dive deep into the common myths about why women may lose sexual interest in their husbands and reveal the truth about what drives female attraction. From debunking the idea that it’s all about technique or financial motives to exploring the emotional and biological factors at play, this video offers honest insights to help you navigat...
In this video, we dive deep into the complexities of female attraction and why so many men struggle to maintain it in marriage. From navigating the overwhelming advice on YouTube to understanding the different "crowds" of men offering solutions, we break down what works and what doesn't. Whether it's the "never get married" group, the "pump and dump" mindset, or the happily married couples thriving in every aspect, there's wisdom t...
Struggling with unforgiveness in your marriage? In this in-depth video, we unpack a real-life story from my free community about a husband caught in a common relationship mistake that spiraled into a major conflict. After receiving “accidental” text messages from a woman—the husband engaged in friendly, non-sexual conversations. His wife claims this is an emotional affair...but is it?
Complicating matters, their marriage has bee...
Join us for an insightful and transformative episode of the podcast where I’m thrilled to be joined by Karyn Seitz, the creator of the Happy Wife School YouTube channel.
Both of our channels share a mission to empower women to cultivate their own happiness and help men navigate the complexities of modern relationships.
In this engaging conversation, we explore critical topics like why women often resist taking personal respo...
Thanks for joining our exclusive live broadcast. Where we will go over the 6 Pillars to Long Term Sexual Attraction. This is a surface level mini bootcamp for my new course How to Create and Maintain Long Term Sexual Attraction.
Join My Free Community Here: https://www.skool.com/understanding-women-4317/about?ref=ef239ca470a34e648243770616f65c73
Discover how I grew my YouTube channel, Modern Marriage with Monica, to 50,000 subscribers in just one year and how I got monetized in just 6 weeks!
Learn the exact strategies, equipment, and editing tips that helped me succeed, plus behind-the-scenes insights on creating viral content (like my clip with 300,000+ views) that resonated with men seeking better marriages.
Want to start your own YouTube channel? Learn from my m...
In this engaging podcast episode, we sit down with Rich Cooper, a prominent figure in the manosphere, known for his YouTube channel Entrepreneurs in Cars with over 700,000 subscribers and a strong presence on X with 217,000 followers. Rich shares his journey from business-focused content to addressing men’s relationship challenges, drawing from his personal experiences, including his 2011 divorce and subsequent insights into modern...
In this compelling episode, we sit down with Gift Lasta, a renowned masculinity coach and author, to explore the complexities of modern marriage and masculinity.
Giff, who has helped over 50 men transform their relationships through his Reforge Marriage program, shares his personal journey from overcoming struggles with pornography and marital disconnect to building a thriving marriage.
Drawing from his new book, The Way of...
Welcome back to the second part of our two part series on the Eight Characteristics of Unframed Men. In this episode, we wrap up the discussion by exploring characteristics 5 through 8, diving deep into what it means to lack frame and how it impacts your life, relationships, and personal growth.
Building on last week’s insights—where we defined frame, its importance, and covered the first four characteristics—this video tackles...
Popular Podcasts
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.
The heart was always off-limits to surgeons. Cutting into it spelled instant death for the patient. That is, until a ragtag group of doctors scattered across the Midwest and Texas decided to throw out the rule book. Working in makeshift laboratories and home garages, using medical devices made from scavenged machine parts and beer tubes, these men and women invented the field of open heart surgery. Odds are, someone you know is alive because of them. So why has history left them behind? Presented by Chris Pine, CARDIAC COWBOYS tells the gripping true story behind the birth of heart surgery, and the young, Greatest Generation doctors who made it happen. For years, they competed and feuded, racing to be the first, the best, and the most prolific. Some appeared on the cover of Time Magazine, operated on kings and advised presidents. Others ended up disgraced, penniless, and convicted of felonies. Together, they ignited a revolution in medicine, and changed the world.
The official podcast of comedian Joe Rogan.
I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!
The Clay Travis and Buck Sexton Show. Clay Travis and Buck Sexton tackle the biggest stories in news, politics and current events with intelligence and humor. From the border crisis, to the madness of cancel culture and far-left missteps, Clay and Buck guide listeners through the latest headlines and hot topics with fun and entertaining conversations and opinions.