Discover why fall is the perfect time to reset your self-care routine (or finally start one) without adding one more thing to your overwhelming to-do list. Natalie shares 5 game-changing strategies that helped her go from exhausted and depleted to present and thriving—including the exact moment her daughter's words made her realize she had completely lost herself in motherhood.
💔 Why You Need to Listen to ThisDo you look in the mirror and see tired eyes staring back? Are you constantly putting everyone else's needs first while running on fumes? Maybe you're already feeling resentful because you're doing everything yourself, but you don't know how to ask for help without feeling guilty. Or perhaps you've convinced yourself that self-care is selfish—another thing you "should" do but can never quite fit in. If you're nodding along, mama, this episode is your permission slip to stop surviving and start filling your own cup first.
✨ How This Episode Will Transform Your LifeAfter listening, you'll be able to:
Natalie shares the pivotal moment that changed everything—when her 7-year-old's innocent observation revealed she'd completely lost herself trying to create the "perfect" experience for her family.
🫖 Self-Care Isn't Bubble Baths—It's Meeting Your Actual NeedsDiscover what self-care REALLY means for moms and why neglecting yourself teaches your kids their needs don't matter either. Learn how to identify whether you're emotionally drained, physically exhausted, or mentally overwhelmed—so you can choose care that actually serves you.
💪 The "Things You Can Do to Support Me" Strategy That Changed EverythingWhy your family wants to help but doesn't know how—and the exact framework for asking for support in specific, concrete ways. (Spoiler: "Can you help more?" doesn't work. "Can you handle bedtime on Tuesdays?" does.)
🚫 Boundary Setting Without Guilt: The FOG vs. DIE FrameworkNever make decisions out of Fear, Obligation, or Guilt—only from Desire, Intention, or Excitement. Learn how to say no to what doesn't align with your values, even when people might be disappointed.
⏰ Micro Moments of Care: Self-Care in 2-5 Minute PocketsForget waiting for hours of free time that never come. Discover how tiny moments throughout your day (yes, even 2 minutes!) can reset your nervous system and help you show up more present with your kids.
🍁 The Fall Reset: Using Nature's Rhythm to Let GoJust like trees shed their leaves, you can shed habits and commitments that no longer serve you. Learn how to do a simple life audit and simplify one area this season.
🎯 Your Fall Self-Care Action PlanA quick recap of all 5 strategies plus your challenge: Choose ONE commitment to say no to this fall, and use that time to nourish yourself instead.
🎁 Ready to Create Your Personalized Self-Care Plan? Book a FREE 30-minute coaching call with Natalie to identify your biggest stress triggers and create a simple action plan. Spots are limited! → Book Your Call at NatalieMcCabe.com
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