How to Be a Disciple Who Makes Disciples

On this episode of NCC Unplugged, we dive into one of the most important yet often misunderstood aspects of following Jesus—discipleship. More than just a label, being a disciple means walking in intentional relationship with Christ and others. Together with Allison Murray, NCC’s Director of Children’s Ministries, and elder Rich Seaman, we unpack what it looks like to move from being a disciple to becoming a disciple-maker.

From exploring the biblical foundation in the Great Commission to sharing practical next steps, we discuss how discipleship is relational, lifelong, and deeply personal. Whether it’s through prayer, investing in one-on-one relationships, navigating family dynamics, or simply being intentional in everyday conversations, this episode offers encouragement for anyone who wants to live out Jesus’ call to “go and make disciples.”

Show Notes Episode Highlights

• What is discipleship really about? Moving beyond titles and labels, discipleship is intentional, relational, and lifelong.

• The role of elders at NCC Rich explains how NCC’s elder team functions as spiritual shepherds and why a plurality of leadership reflects the biblical model.

• The Great Commission as our foundation We revisit Matthew 28:18–20 and reflect on how Jesus’ final words are still our mission today.

• Evangelism vs. Discipleship Evangelism plants the seeds, but discipleship nurtures growth through relationship, prayer, and life together.

• Practical next steps

  • Begin by being a committed disciple yourself.

  • Pray for God to reveal who He’s placing in your circle.

  • Focus on relationships, not projects.

  • Start small—invest deeply in just one or two people.

  • Use everyday opportunities (like conversations at work, coffee meetups, or family gatherings) to point others to Jesus.

• Family dynamics in discipleship Discipling family members can be challenging, but Scripture shows us examples of bringing loved ones to Christ with humility and love.

• How to invite someone into deeper conversation Look for natural openings—sharing how faith impacts your daily life, offering to pray with someone, or inviting them to study Scripture together.

• Encouraging multiplication True disciple-making doesn’t end with us. As new believers grow, they’re called to bring others along in the journey too.

Key Takeaways

• Discipleship is not about numbers—it’s about people.

• Relationships are the soil where discipleship grows.

• Everyone can be part of God’s mission, regardless of personality type or fears.

• The Great Commission is for all believers, not just church leaders.

Scripture References

• Matthew 28:18–20 – The Great Commission

• Matthew 9:36 – Jesus’ compassion for the crowds

• John 1:40–42 – Andrew brings his brother Peter to Jesus

• John 4:28–30 – The Samaritan woman tells her town about Jesus

Next Episode Preview

We’ll be talking about the different places discipleship happens—in our homes, workplaces, community, and church—and how to be intentional in each setting.