people pleasing has mutated in a big way

I don’t know if you can ever really prepare for a significant perspective shift in a way that self-indulgent self development  makes it feel. The whole time you’re working towards being better, remembering what it’s like to be in a body you’ve never left. 

I love when an online scroll bears fruit. I saw a video from a TikTok creator called Beyond Codependant who shares their matrix of people pleasing. WHICH INVOLVES MORE ARCHETYPES OF PEOPLE PLEASERS. SO COOL. 

There’s the people manager, the caretaker, the matcher, and of course, the classic people pleaser. In exploring how these roles show up in relationships, it’s reminding me why it’s important to get to know your faves deeply. Not scripting through the relationship. And because you know I love it, I also tie it all into astrology — especially the 11th house — to explain how your sign and modality can influence your social dynamics. 

In the spirit of sharing, I’ll also open up about my own experiences with setting boundaries, managing relationships, and the power of being self-aware. It’s like a cosmic roadmap to healthier connections, with a little DIY fashion inspiration thrown in. ✨💫 

Listen immediately and tell your friends to tell a friend ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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Timestamps

00:00 mexico flex speaking

00:46 four types of pleaser

01:54 why do you have boundaries

06:39 zodiac vs. society

18:01 the pleaser’s dilemma

32:44 exercise the fast fashion demons

35:19 miss you dearly