In this duo episode of Noticing, Maggie and Urvi take a deep dive into personal growth cycles, the balance between striving for more and grounding yourself in the present moment. They explore the concept of "Incendence vs. Transcendence"—the tension between striving for something greater and learning to integrate growth into everyday life. With their signature blend of insight, humor, and realness, they reflect on the challenges of self-growth, the importance of intentionality, and how to avoid the trap of constantly seeking validation.
Key Topics Covered:
- Incendence vs. Transcendence: Maggie shares her thoughts on the difference between seeking growth externally versus grounding it internally, and how the need to constantly strive can lead to missing the present moment.
- The Trap of Up-Leveling: Urvi discusses the concept of up-leveling in the self-growth space and how it can lead to static, goal-oriented thinking rather than dynamic personal transformation.
- Integration vs. Striving: Both hosts emphasize the importance of integrating growth into reality rather than constantly focusing on the next achievement.
- The Role of Recognition in Growth: Maggie and Urvi explore how our need for validation can shape our growth journey, and the power of checking in with our intentions.
- Service vs. Helping: Urvi offers a compelling distinction between helping and being of service, and how true service involves offering what people need, not what they want.
Takeaways:
- Personal growth doesn’t have to be about constant striving. Sometimes, growth is about acknowledging where you are and integrating it into your life.
- Up-leveling often creates a static goal, but real transformation comes when we learn to live in the present moment.
- It’s easy to get caught up in seeking recognition for our growth, but true service comes from helping others in ways that may not always be easy.
- Grounding yourself in reality and being intentional about your actions leads to more sustainable and fulfilling growth.
Actionable Steps:
- Reflect on your own growth cycles. Are you constantly striving for the next thing, or are you integrating what you’ve already learned?
- Check your intentions. Are you seeking validation from others, or are you acting from a place of internal motivation?
- Consider the balance between service and helping. How can you be of true service to those around you?
Connect With Us:
- Follow Maggie: @maggiewardcoaching
- Follow Urvi: @urvipatel.co
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