4 - Lost in the Hustle: When Holding It All Together Is Breaking You

📌 Description:

Are you tired of being the one who holds it all together... all the time?

In this episode of On Purpose: Christian Coaching for Women, Jamie takes a deep dive into what’s really behind the burnout — and why so many high-capacity, faith-filled women feel exhausted, invisible, and quietly resentful.

You’ll hear how over-functioning can mask deeper exhaustion, how people-pleasing steals our joy, and what it looks like to finally surrender the hustle for peace and purpose.

If you’re constantly doing “all the things” and still feeling behind, this is your sacred invitation to lay it down and rest in the presence of the One who actually holds it all together.

🎧 In This Episode:

• What over-functioning really is (and why it’s so sneaky)
• How people-pleasing and perfectionism fuel burnout
• The silent signs that you’ve lost yourself in the hustle
• A personal story about my overwhelm turning into resentment 
• Jesus’ invitation to rest (Matthew 11:28–30 + Luke 10:38–42)
• How to begin letting go — with grace and baby steps

💬 Favorite Quote:

“God didn’t knit you together in your mother’s womb just to watch you unravel for the sake of being liked by people on earth. That’s not your calling—that’s …captivity.” 

⏱️ Timestamps:

• 00:00 – When being the go-to girl goes too far
• 03:48 – The truth about over-functioning + people-pleasing
• 04:10 – How burnout turns into anxiety, resentment, and identity loss
• 08:38 – Signs/symptoms you’ve lost yourself in the hustle
• 10:25 – Jesus’ invitation to rest + the Mary vs. Martha moment
• 14:31 – Your next step: Breakthrough Bootcamp

🔗 Links & Resources:

• 💬 Join the On Purpose Community + get the Dream Discovery Guide  → On Purpose Community
• 🎯 Coaching with Jamie