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August 12, 2025 20 mins

Rejection almost ended my filmmaking career. I’ve pitched over 1,000 projects in my life and lost the vast majority of them. I’ve been ghosted, ignored, and told “no” more times than I can count. But every single rejection taught me something that eventually led to my biggest breaks in the industry.

In this episode, I share how I survived years of constant rejection, the mindset shift that turned “no” into fuel, why rejection isn’t personal but situational, how to refine your pitch so people can’t ignore you, and the exact strategies I used to land career-changing projects.

If you’re a filmmaker, creative, or entrepreneur dealing with rejection, this conversation will change the way you see every “no” you get. Watch if you’ve ever wondered how to keep going when nothing’s working, why people reject your ideas, or how to turn rejection into opportunity.

 

00:00 Introduction: Facing Rejection 00:20 The Reality of Rejection 00:37 My Filmmaking Journey 01:14 Early Career Struggles 02:10 The Relentless Pursuit 02:26 Questioning My Path 02:43 Understanding Treatments 03:29 Facing Ghosting and Burnout 04:31 Recalibrating After Rejection 06:32 Rejection is Situational 07:15 Film Festival Rejections 08:55 Pitching in Person 10:16 Rejection as Redirection 11:31 Processing Rejection 12:40 Detaching Identity from Outcome 13:29 Improving Your Pitch 14:44 Building Relationships 15:46 Protecting Your Joy 16:38 Finding a Community 18:14 Learning from Rejection 18:45 Final Thoughts on Rejection

 

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