5 Questions: What Do We Do With Them Now? Parenting

5 Questions: What Do We Do With Them Now? Parenting

Introduction

In this episode of the Overtime Podcast, we continue our discussion from the Home Sphere series, tackling the question: What do I do with them now? Parenting is a journey filled with different seasons, challenges, and blessings. Our speakers dive into the biblical call to raise godly offspring and share practical insights on how to be present, intentional, and Christlike in our parenting. Whether you’re raising little ones, teenagers, or even mentoring young believers in the faith, this episode is packed with wisdom and encouragement.

 

Key Takeaways

1. The Biblical Call to Raise Godly Offspring

• Malachi 2 emphasizes that God’s desire for marriage is to produce godly offspring.
• As Christian parents, we must be intentional in shaping our children’s faith.
• Three key principles for parenting:
  • Be present.
  • Be intentional.
  • Be like Jesus.

2. Children as Arrows in the Spiritual Battle

• Psalm 127 describes children as arrows in the hands of a warrior.
• Parents are called to shape and equip their children to be spiritual warriors.
• Deuteronomy 6 provides a framework:
  • Love God with your whole being.
  • Teach your children about God’s Word and how He has worked in your life.
  • Live out your faith consistently.

3. The Importance of Loving Discipline

• Ephesians 6:4 warns against exasperating children but calls for training them in the Lord.
• Discipline should be motivated by love, just as God disciplines us.
• Every child is different and requires unique guidance and correction.

4. The Role of Marriage in Parenting

• Prioritizing marriage strengthens the foundation of parenting.
• A strong, Christ-centered marriage models love and security for children.
• The best way to love your children is to love your spouse well.

5. Trusting God with the Outcome

• Parents are responsible for their influence but not for their children's ultimate choices.
• Many parents struggle with regret, but God is a redeemer who can restore brokenness.
• Entrusting our children to God is an act of faith, knowing He loves them even more than we do.

6. Parenting in the Context of the Church

• Spiritual parenting extends beyond biological children—discipleship plays a key role.
• The church community provides support for single parents, step-parents, and those without children.
• Paul and Timothy’s relationship demonstrates how spiritual mentors can step into the gap.

 

Discussion Questions

1. How does Malachi 2 shape your understanding of parenting as a spiritual calling?
2. What are some practical ways you can be more present and intentional with your children?
3. In what ways do you see parenting as a form of spiritual warfare?
4. How can you ensure your discipline reflects God’s love rather than frustration or anger?
5. If you are struggling with regrets as a parent, how can you bring those before God and find hope?
6. How can the church community support those who are parenting in challenging circumstances?
7. What steps can you take to entrust your children to God while still fulfilling your role as a parent?

 

Action Steps

• Evaluate Your Parenting Approach – Are you being present, intentional, and Christlike? Identify one area to improve.
• Prioritize Your Marriage – If you’re married, invest in strengthening your relationship as a foundation for your family.
• Live Out Your Faith – Be transparent with your children about your walk with Christ, modeling repentance and dependence on God.
• Pray for Your Children – Lift them up daily, trusting God with their hearts and futures.
• Seek Support and Mentorship – Whether you need guidance or can mentor someone else, engage with your church community for wisdom and encouragement.
• Encourage Other Parents – Parenting is hard; find ways to support and speak life into fellow parents in your circle.

 

Closing Encouragement

Parenting is one of the greatest joys and challenges of life, but you are not alone in this journey. God has entrusted you with a sacred calling, and He will equip you for the task. Whether you are a parent, grandparent, mentor, or friend, your influence matters. Stand firm in your faith, lead with love, and trust God with the outcome.

Remember, even when we fall short, God’s grace is greater. He is the redeemer of all things, including our parenting. Keep pressing on, knowing that He is faithful to comp