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September 17, 2025 19 mins
In this eye-opening episode of Parent Guide: Helping Your Teen Overcome Pornography Addiction, host Matt Bulkley, a psychotherapist specializing in family challenges, breaks down the neuroscience of how pornography addicts the teen brain through massive dopamine surges. Drawing on studies from Archives of Sexual Behavior (2022) and Addiction Biology (2020), Matt explains the "reward juice" overload that desensitizes pleasure centers, leading to anhedonia, impulsivity, and emotional fallout like anxiety and withdrawal. But it's not all daunting—Matt shares hope through the brain's neuroplasticity and a "dopamine reset" process, plus four actionable steps for parents:
  1. Boost Healthy Rewards: Guide teens toward sports, hobbies, or family activities with patience for the initial "flat" phase—consistency rebuilds joy.
  2. Offer Compassion: Expect mood swings during recalibration; swap judgment for empathy to ease resistance.
  3. Manage Tech Wisely: Enforce tools like Covenant Eyes for accountability, 8 PM curfews via Gryphon/Qustodio, tech-free bedrooms, and monitored phones with Bark.
  4. Seek Pro Help: Tap therapy, CBT, or programs like Therapy Associates' outpatient services and Star Guides' 120-day intensive reset.
With real-talk empathy and no-shame science, this episode equips parents to shift from overwhelm to empowerment. Your teen's brain can heal—let's make it happen.   Resources: Call to Action: Share one step you'll take to support your teen in the comments on our website or social media. Subscribe now for more tools and strategies—your family's next win starts here!
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