Hi Parents!
Is your teen struggling, but every time you try to help, they push you away? You’re not alone. Many parents feel stuck in a cycle of offering support, only to be met with resistance, frustration, or complete shutdowns.
In today’s episode, we’re tackling one of the biggest parenting challenges: why teens reject help - even when they clearly need it - and how you can shift their mindset without the power struggles. I’ll be sharing three key strategies that will help you validate their emotions, reshape how they view support, and empower them to take ownership of their own growth.
We’ll discuss why so many teens refuse therapy, coaching, or even just talking about their struggles, and why their resistance is often rooted in identity, fear, or past disappointments - not rebellion. I’ll also walk you through a simple but powerful approach to making help feel like a choice, not a demand.
This episode is packed with actionable insights, including:
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How to talk about therapy or coaching without triggering defensiveness
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Why shifting your language from ‘fixing’ to ‘supporting’ makes all the difference
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The role autonomy plays in getting your teen to take the next step
By the end of this episode, you’ll have a roadmap for breaking through resistance and guiding your teen toward the help they actually need - without the arguments or pushback.
Big hugs,
Monica Crnogorac
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