Peace of Mind for Pet Parents: Navigating Life With Aging or Ill Pets

When your hospice pet needs emergency veterinary care, you might face unexpected pressure to euthanize instead of continuing comfort care at home. In this essential episode, Gail Pope and Karen Wylie share real stories from pet parents who felt uncomfortable at emergency clinics and provide practical strategies to protect your hospice journey.

Learn how to prepare before you need emergency services, communicate effectively with ER ...

Personal experiences with mediumship, signs from beyond, and finding comfort in continuing bonds. In this deeply personal episode of Peace of Mind for Pet Parents, Karen and Gail courageously share their own beliefs about death, dying, and what comes after—shaped by decades of loving and losing both human family members and beloved animals.

💜 Karen's Incredible Mediumship Journey:

• Powerful trainin...

What if there's another doctor guiding your pet’s final journey—one you can’t see, but can feel? In this episode, Gail and Karen explore how trusting Mother Nature can help pet parents let go, find peace, and recognize the signs of dying without panic.

A heartfelt conversation on intuitive care, hospice, and surrender.

💬 “Sometimes the most difficult thing as a human being is simply being—especially...

What happens when there’s no cure—but life still has meaning? When people enter hospice, there's an understanding that death is near but also that life continues in meaningful ways. But when it comes to our beloved animals, end-of-life conversations are often rushed, and the only option presented is euthanasia.

In this honest and deeply compassionate conversation, Karen and Gail explore what happens when medical options run out—but...

How do you know when it’s time to stop treating your pet? In this heartfelt conversation, Gail Pope and Karen Wylie explore the emotional, physical, and spiritual crossroads that many pet parents face when caring for a chronically ill or aging animal.

Together, they reflect on what “treatment” really means—from medications and vet visits to special diets and home care routines—and how stopping treatment isn’t the same as giving up....

Why do so many pet parents carry regrets—even years after saying goodbye? In this heartfelt episode, Gail and Karen explore the many faces of regret in the grieving process: from sudden losses to long hospice journeys, from things we didn’t know to things we wish we’d done differently.

We talk about how hindsight can distort our memories, how caregiving often brings a painful illusion of control, and why self-forgiveness isn’t just...

Why teaching about dying, hospice, and the natural cycle of life and death matters to pets, parents, and professionals.

In this candid conversation, Gail and Karen explore the hidden gaps in veterinary education, especially around end-of-life care, the natural dying process, and how our cultural fear of death has shaped the way veterinarians are trained.

From hospice and palliative care to ritual, grief, and honoring the sacred mom...

What happens after your pet dies at home? In this tender and practical conversation, Karen Wylie and Gail Pope guide pet parents through what to expect—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. From how to care for your pet’s body, to creating space for honoring and grief, this episode is filled with comforting insights and gentle support.

Whether you’re planning ahead or navigating a recent loss, you’ll find reassurance and clarit...

What if grieving the loss of your beloved pet wasn’t something you had to do alone—or quietly, or quickly? In this week’s episode, Karen and Gail share the heartwarming story of the BrightHaven Rose Ceremony, a monthly ritual of remembrance created to honor the animals who had passed and the humans who loved them. From candles and rose petals to laughter and stories, this ceremony offered a sacred space for grieving, healing, and c...

What do you do when your veterinarian makes a recommendation that doesn’t feel quite right? In this episode of Peace of Mind for Pet Parents, Gail Pope and Karen Wylie explore what it means to listen with care, ask thoughtful questions, and stand strong for your beloved animal — especially when your intuition says something’s not right.

Together, they share tips for preparing for veterinary visits, communicating clearly under emoti...

What does it feel like to grieve while your pet is still here? In this deeply personal episode, Gail and Karen explore anticipatory grief—the quiet sorrow that begins before a beloved pet’s life has ended. Through heartfelt stories, they share how love and grief often live side by side during caregiving, how to recognize the signs of anticipatory grief, and what it means to find peace of mind before goodbye.

Whether you're noticing...

Can animals truly choose when to transition?

In this heartfelt episode, Gail Pope of BrightHaven shares profound stories of animal companions who appeared to know — and even guide — the timing of their own passing. Through deeply moving examples, Gail invites us to consider the soul-level awareness of animals at the end of life and the sacred space we can hold for them as they prepare to say goodbye.

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Last week, we shared the first spiritual experiences that opened our eyes to something more — moments that hinted at life beyond the physical, and deepened our belief in the ongoing connection between pets and their people. 

This week, we turn the lens gently toward our animals themselves.

In this companion episode, Gail Pope and Karen Wylie reflect on the quiet ways our beloved pets sometimes know that their physical life is neari...

In this deeply personal episode, Gail and Karen open up about the earliest moments when they knew — when something beyond the physical made itself known. From sensing the moment a loved one died, to seeing spiritual signs from animals who had passed, they trace the beginnings of their spiritual journey and the quiet awakenings that followed.

This conversation explores:

• Spiritual awakenings tied to ...

Discover how shifting from the goal of fixing to the practice of healing opens a deeper connection with your pet — and yourself — in life’s tender final chapters.

What if our caregiving role wasn’t about fixing, but about honoring the journey? In this episode, Gai and Karenl reflect on the wisdom of animals, the limitations of cure-focused care, and how BrightHaven’s Menu for Healing and LIVING Quality of Life Care Assessment suppo...

Cats are masters at hiding pain—but if we know what to look for, we can make their world easier to navigate and more comfortable to grow old in.

Cats age differently than dogs—and often more quietly. In this practical conversation, Karen and Gail reflect on the subtle but powerful signs that a cat’s mobility may be changing, from hesitating to jump onto the couch to choosing lower shelves on the cat tree.

Drawing on their years of ...

Gail and Karen share their first experiences with natural death — stories of being "forced" into it by circumstance, and discovering something unexpectedly beautiful.

They explore the emotional and spiritual transformation that can unfold when we walk beside our animals through death, without rushing to euthanasia.

An honest conversation about grief, trust, and the sacred process of letting go.

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When you're a devoted pet caregiver, it's easy to forget that caring for yourself is part of the job.

In this conversation, Gail and Karen reflect on the small but powerful rituals that sustain them—sniff walks, porch time, cups of tea, and the quiet presence of their animal companions. They also explore how grief threads itself through everyday routines when we’re supporting pets through illness or loss. What happens when the thi...

When your dog’s mobility begins to decline, it can bring up worry, sadness, and a whole lot of questions. In this episode of Peace of Mind for Pet Parents, Gail Pope and Karen Wylie offer real-life tips to help you navigate this challenging stage of your pet’s journey.

Gail shares what she learned from supporting over 700 animals at BrightHaven Sanctuary, including how mobility challenges like arthritis, hip dysplasia, strokes, and...