Barber, performer, and viral content creator Mark Massett joins Julia to reveal the five most influential people in his life — and how they helped shape his comedy, identity, and alter ego, Brenda. From a no-nonsense English teacher to his irrepressible mum, from icons like Caroline Aherne and Madonna to the legendary Paul O’Grady, Mark’s story is packed with heart, humour, and honesty.
They dive into the power of creative expression, finding your voice as a queer performer, and how real people and raw moments inspire the most meaningful art. Plus: the origin of Brenda, navigating vulnerability, and why comedy is more than just laughs.
Episode Highlights (no timecodes)
The origin of Brenda and how she became a viral character Creating parody content during lockdown and beyond Why a bold, fearless English teacher left a lifelong impact The influence of Mark’s mother — funny, flawed, and fierce How Caroline Aherne’s comedy became a blueprint for truth Madonna’s unapologetic boldness as a beacon of early identity Discovering confidence and queerness through pop culture Paul O’Grady’s legacy of humour, drag, and humanity The role of humour as both deflection and connection Choosing authenticity, setting boundaries, and living with intention
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